i have a date friday night
and i dont know if i should get her roses or something
2007-03-22 14:48:19 · 51 answers · asked by yy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope!
You could possibly afraid her :-(
That's too soon budy!
Wait a few dates and then, when you feel there's a certain connection between the two of you, that's going to be right time.
Hope that helps ;-)
2007-03-22 14:54:35 · answer #1 · answered by Rick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know a single woman that would refuse any flowers brought to her on a first date. Having said that-none of the men I dated (before I met Mr. Right) ever brought me a dozen roses on the first date. Neither did Mr. Right but he did bring them after we'd been dating a while which made them special.
I don't think it's necessary to bring her anything-but I do believe old fashioned ways are best-pay for the date. ;) I expect others to attach me for that but hey-old fashioned worked for a reason.
One or a couple of flowers is perfectly acceptable. Ignore the idiots to act like you're nuts for even considering it. They're still single for a REASON!
2007-03-22 14:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by Steshka P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try something besides roses....maybe some pretty daisies or sunflowers. I think the fact that you are even inquiring about this shows what a great date you are, very kind and considerate. Hopefully you will have plenty of follow up dates and opportunities to bring roses :-)
2007-03-22 14:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by lisagoesshopping 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your date someone you know? Is it someone you've pursued for a while, and this is just the first time you're getting together? If so, go for a rose or a small bouquet.
If this is a first date with someone you barely know, I wouldn't necessarily do it. Be polite and courteous, of course, but I'd go for flowers on the second date.
2007-03-22 14:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by Kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For goodness sake, this isn't a funeral! The usual thing is roses. Roses, roses, roses! Try something new this time. You may not know this, but they probably are expecting you to get them some kind of flower. Suprise your date (in a good way).
2007-03-22 14:52:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that every woman on this thread has said something to the effect of "well... maybe one would be ok, but definitely don't overdo it", should make you stop dead in your tracks. Half the men (the one's with experience) have said "DO NOT DO IT" and the other half (hopeless romantics) beleive that it could give you the edge over other less sensitive guys. They are wrong. At worst it will creep her out, and at best she will think it's cute but that you are kind of an old-fashioned geek (which she may like, kind of, but in a "his inexperience is cute" kind of way, not in the way that you want). I'm not trying to be a pessimist, but has any one girl on this thread said "HELL YES, always bring flowers, we love it, it's important to us". No. It could, repeat COULD, earn you a maximum of maybe one brownie point, but you're risking way more (like being put into the instant friend or "not my type" category).
2007-03-22 14:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definitely, it seems such as you adult men already are boyfriend/lady buddy... you do not could say it for it to be first rate, in case you adult men have long gone out on dates and she or he likes you and additionally you like her, then you definately're a pair already, and asking ought to easily make it look quite much less organic, in case you comprehend what I recommend. And it does not recommend something undesirable that SHE reported the date, it in all possibility in simple terms skill she is greater into you, and has an entire concept approximately what she desires to ensue, which isn't a bad element. additionally, the rose element sounds wonderful, do exactly not bypass overboard. in case you adult men have twenty dates and additionally you carry her a rose for one and all, it would get previous. yet once you stop after awhile all of sudden, she might think of a few thing is incorrect, so be careful. besides, i think of it would be wonderful in case you probably did it a pair greater instances yet after awhile it truly is advisable to alter to some thing else, in case it gets previous, or for some females after awhile they might evaluate it form of "sappy". So yeah, long tale short, it seems such as you adult men already are a (wonderful) couple, and in simple terms shop doing in spite of you have been doing, it sounds like that's working great for you. desire this facilitates :)
2016-12-19 11:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's a nice thought to bring flowers. I happen to be a hopeless romantic so I would be touched.
Maybe not all roses but maybe a mixture?
Good luck!
2007-03-22 14:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by iceycalm101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! You have to date her first and see if your even going to like her. While on your date ask her what kind of flower is her favorite. If there is a second date get her one of her favorites.
Just remember if you start it now she's going to expect it every time.
2007-03-22 14:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won my heart over. Yeah, get her roses or just a single rose. Most women love a romantic.
2007-03-22 14:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋