really need help!omg?

Question

okay, long story short, went out with a guy,got far,but things moved too fast, broke up, now we r just "friends" but he isent acting like anything, we were gonna be just extremely close friends, but he wont even act like a friend anymore. he knows i like him now, he likes me a little too, but i think i am getting on his nerves a little bit, i mean im stressed over a lot of big things, and he is acting like an @$$ right now, idk y,and my dad thinks bad about the whole situation of me and him, and he is mad about that too, even though i told him my dad does not matter, cause he doesnt. im just tired of being sad,what do i do! just give him his space? i guess, but im so miserable, whenever i see him, i get butterflies in my stomach, i just dont wanna loose him, and i want things to eventually work out, i want for that soooo soooo much, but how do i act, what do i do, he is acting like such a jerk! and im tired of crying, please help me! im like ughh cry cry cryyyy

Answer 1

First of all, you need to chill. I know you're miserable and you want to be over that but, you're doing more harm than good by pushing the issue with this guy. If he's acting like a jerk to you, do the right thing and back off. Whatever his reasons are for acting in a negative way towards you are ultimately his problem. You can't force a friendship or relationship with anyone. The more you try to push someone, the more that person will pull away. It's only natural.

Stop bugging him or acting nervous around him. In other words, leave him alone for awhile. If it's meant to be, he'll get over whatever it is he's upset about. Guys don't respond well to pressure. Actually, most people don't. If you leave this guy alone for awhile, you'll be surprised by the results. Everyone needs time to thinkt things out sometimes. If you lose this guy forever, that's a risk you'll have to take. The rate you're going now, you're going to lose him anyway so space & time won't push him away. Sometimes space is a good thing.

Answer 2

You just need to forget him and move on. I know you'll be thinking...i don't want to move on, we are meant to be together or i love him too much...but that's the wrong attitude. At this stage you need to occupy your mind with other things. Focus all your spare time on being with friends and then time will pass and eventually you won't cry all the time.

If you are meant to be together it will work out. Have you ever seen the Notebook? It was seven years before they got back together! So if it's meant to be you may have a long wait. You can't be depressed every day until then.

Just focus on better things. Have fun being single while you can.

Answer 3

Wow that answer sucked!

Heres an answer from me (a guy).

Honesty is the best thing! not saying your lieing or anything just say exactly how u feel and ask how he feels. it clears that feeling and u know exactly how they feel. and if hes even close to a friend hell respect that!

Please, dont cry. Sounds like a waste of tears. If hes acting like a jerk tell him. If he doesnt stop slowly fade away from him.

peace
have a great life!

Answer 4

For all to come by ur way... U have to give his some space.. Then u will give the effect... Who knows he might come to u on his knees that he can't afford to lose u!! k...
Give him and urself some time lady..
Don cry dear..

Answer 5

Ok....Wait about 1 month....JUST 1 month THEN..... ask him what he think of you right now....Ask him if he thinks you are a good friend.....If you really like him tell him how you feel.........I'm sure he'll understand. But IF he doesn't like you anymore.....Just move onn...... : )

Answer 6

not so short

Answer 7

give him some time and dont worry it will go fine ...also stop crying