Ok so I haven’t seen my boyfriend for a month IT’S NOT a long distance relationship and im not going to bother because I always make the effort with no results. So anyway I have been trying to call him and stuff but he wasn’t picking up my calls...so I decided to get some attention by telling him I’m going on holiday for 2 - 3 weeks which IS A LIE.....so I sent him a text telling "im going holiday tmrw so i'll see you when i see you" the second I send that text he decides to call me but I don’t pick up, he left over 10 missed calls and a voicemail say “im evil and he couldn’t believe I was doing this and told him in the last minute and it would have been nice to see me before I go”
Do you think I’m evil? My family do! Keeping in mind his phone is always off and he has stood me up many times before!
2007-03-22 14:45:38 · 19 answers · asked by Confuseddotcom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your not evil. your just mad, hurt, you propably feel rejected too. you did the right thing girlfriend, giving him a taste of his own medicine. do unto others, as they would do to you. i'm proud that there are other women out there standing up for themselves. way to go girl. keep standing tall + dont take no more crap!
2007-03-22 14:57:50 · answer #1 · answered by grasshopper9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was very mischievious of you to do this, you just have to remember do you want to play these games all the time with him? did it smarten him up, if it didn't then he may be playing you and dating other girls and that may be why he doesn't answer the phone. I would tell him if he cant find the time for you that you are going to move on and find a man that really loves you because this is not love. Take care Heather
2007-03-22 21:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think your evil. i think your boyfriend is kinda evil but i don't know him so i don't know. but maybe insteading of lying to him and not picking up the phone like he does to you...you should talk to him about how you feel. don't do the same thing that he is doing to you...it doesn't make you a better person to get revenge. just talk to him about how you feel. <33
2007-03-22 21:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by Defiance_Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gal i know how u feel ,been there. I think he's the evil one and how dare he calls u evil, when he's the one who has'nt been calling. If u talk to him tell him how hurt u are.hope u guys can try to work things out , all the best.
2007-03-22 21:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by Bluey07 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't seen him for over a month, and he won't answer your phone calls, then what makes you think he is still your boyfriend. Personally, I would look for someone who wants to be with me and enjoys my company and doing things together. Move On.
2007-03-22 21:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by conni 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, not evil. Just sounds like you were trying what you could to get a reaction. I would do the same thing.
2007-03-22 21:49:22 · answer #6 · answered by Speak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I think he just wants to be w/ u on his time... I think you are probably better than that even though I don't no you. I also think you might not be the only woman in his life Honey. Go fix your self up and find a norther man.....
2007-03-22 22:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by alizaboo19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not evil. I think relationships have down cycles and more intense cycles. Sounds like you are in a down cycle. Don't let other people's opinions influence your intuition. No one knows your relationship dynamic better than you do.
2007-03-22 21:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by james B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your not evil ur just getting him back 4 what he did to u because u want him to feel the hurt and pain that u always feel.
But do u want to be just as bad as him?
Ur Choice
2007-03-22 21:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by Nae-Nae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evil? No...immature, definitely. Why play games? You apparently aren't that into him and he's not that into you (or y'all wouldn't go a month without seeing one another) so why not just cut each other loose and move on?
2007-03-22 21:54:20 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋