I get my mind set on breaking up with him, buht wen it comes to the actual deal i cant do it cuz i guess im just scared, its not like i dont like him or anything at times i like him nd at times i dont wut shud i dooo?
2007-03-22 14:34:09 · 16 answers · asked by xoxopriyanka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-03-22 14:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get scared to breakup with a bf, then there is a real problem. He is controling you, your thoughts, your life and most important, YOUR choices. Maybe not on the surface, but subconscienciously. Nobody can make your decisions and choices for you from this day on. Unless you're under 18 and then only your parents to some degree.
You are your own person and have the responsability and right to make your choices about this sort of thingand brake up immediately if you desire to. it seems you have this desire. Just tell the guy "it's not working out, we can be friends" ..if he doesn't get it or tries to convince you otherwise in any way, then be calm and most of all be sure you are at your home with an adult around if it doesn't go good somehow. More than likely he will try to talk to you later about it and try to convince you to go back with him. Just say 'no" It's your most powerful word. NO. and maybe please leave me alone. Be sure to always have a friend around if you feel it might be uncomfortable . But never be scared, be strong and act strong and the energy you display, exert, project, will help you.
2007-03-22 21:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny if ur ready to break up with him, that means it's already over. You wanting to break up with him and being too scared is just something you will have to get over. Why be with someone if yo udon't know if you want to be with them or not? When you are in a realtionship, yes you will fight and be mad at the other person, but if you cannot in confidence say thru good and bad I want to be with this person, then let it go. Remember, you shouldn't fear love, heartbreak is all part of being in relationships.
2007-03-22 21:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by Sharan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really wanna break up with him? That's what you need to ask yourself. Because that kind of confusion may come from other people telling you that you should, your own insecurities, and a lot of other things. So, you need to have a deep conversation with yourself (hahaha) and ask yourself if that's what you really wanna do. And if it is, then don't be scared, be proud of your decision and feel confident that you made the right choice. Take care!
2007-03-22 21:40:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im feeling the same way, when I know I want too something is stopping me from doing it. Then I think about everything we went through and dont want too. But Im going through the same thing right now. Whatever happens, happens for a reason. Go ahead and do what your heart tells you to do
2007-03-22 21:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by cancer24star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen everyone goes through it you end up dating someone for a certain amount of time and then the doubts start to happen if u truly love him deep down inside and u cant live without him then talk to him about the doubts u have but if u really dont love him then tell him it cant work because u dont love him and you have to move on from there
2007-03-22 21:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by dazhot4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you either learn to like him-make up your mind or you don't right.Although you can still very well be his girl and not always agree with what he does.So there is a difference between the two-but you should actually want to be with the guy in order to be his girlfriend otherwise work on being friends or go your separate ways.Good luck.
2007-03-22 21:39:40 · answer #7 · answered by sweetsmiles69@jennieask-me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that it's what you really want.If you genuinely want to break up with him,do it now and save both of you the hassle of staying in a relationship that isn't going anywhere.
2007-03-22 21:38:43 · answer #8 · answered by babyheavenly2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are obviously young. no adult would type like that.
so far you have stated no reason as to WHY you want to break up with him. but if you keep doubting the relationship then it would be best to break up with him. there is no point in stringing him along. that is just plain old mean and inconsiderate
2007-03-22 21:40:32 · answer #9 · answered by Abercrombie Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask yourself what makes you think you want break up with him? Is it because you are getting bored with him if so try new things to bring back the excitemnt to your relationship.
2007-03-22 21:39:24 · answer #10 · answered by a hot lesbian stud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go out with him until you can't bare it any more. you are bound to have ups and downs in a relationship. its when you truly feel that its going no where that you should break up with him. if you have any doubts on breaking up with him. just stay with him until you are absolutely sure.
2007-03-22 21:37:25 · answer #11 · answered by OpposumGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋