I'm in high school and I've been in a few relationships but they just seem boring. All the fun is in getting the girl and hooking up with her. Right now I'm going out with this really nice girl but so many other girls are coming on to me, it doesn't seem worth it to give up the rest of them to hook up with her on the weekends. Is there something wrong with me? Is there anything I can do to enjoy relationships more?
2007-03-22 14:32:11 · 6 answers · asked by thesecretis25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Having relationships is all part of life experience. They help you grow and find out who you are. They can be very rewarding or not so rewarding. You will experience the joys of first love, the heartbreak of losing love, explore your sexuality, learn about your likes and dislikes. High school relationships help prepare you for adulthood. They help you mature.
If you're not ready to settle down, then don't. You have plenty of time. Many guys don't want to be tied down to one girl at such a young age. Play the field but don't be a player. Be honest from the start about what you want and what you're looking for. Don't lead girls on and let them believe that you will be around for the long term.
When you do fall in love for the first time, you will know. It may not last...but when (if) it's over, you will have one more life experience. You will fall in love many more times in your life. Each one will bring the joys all over again.
2007-03-22 14:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by emt_me911 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys go through that in high school. I support it's normal but I feel it is wrong. If you are with someone you should be faithful to them. If the relationship is boring, spice it up or end it. Hook ups are a no because it's unattractive and disgusting. You may date many girls before finding one you can actually stay with for a decent amount of time. Someday you'll understand what it all means.
2007-03-22 14:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i honestly think that relationships when your young can be very much a waste of time. your in high school so its not like you have the maturity or the money to settle down. and because your so young whats the point in getting serious because you're more then likely going to break up. just have fun. being single is great! not saying give up dating completely, but i would say that its better not to get serious in relationships so young. just have fun and take your time!
2007-03-22 14:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my parents started dating when they were 15 and they've been happily married for years.
but if you don't feel strong enough about a girl to stay with her and tell the other girls to back off, then she clearly isn't for you.
2007-03-22 14:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by Danica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think you want to be in one..relationships esp in hs are total learning experience, they lay down the ground tiles for ur future
2007-03-22 14:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by serialshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being in h.s. i don't think u need or want a girlfriend. she will distract u and your grades will start droping .
2007-03-22 14:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by tinkfreak1992 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋