2007-03-22 14:20:56 · 12 answers · asked by Raneisha W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if hes your friend (or if youre considerin of staying friends wit him after the break up) NEVER and i mean NEVER.. tell him that its him.. start off conversation like about you and him.. then work it to where he is wonderfull..yatti yatti yatti.. but that you simply see him as a friend and only that .. that theres somebody out there for him .. that loves him and deserves his love back.. ohh be sure to compliment him like " any gurl would be lucky to be with you cause.. "
2007-03-22 14:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by iiSABEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should confront him about it starting with a "we need to talk." This should get him in the righ tmind for what you're going to tell him. Then talk about how you don't think it's going to work. If you want to break up then, go into the talk knowing you will and don't turn back because the relationship will already be tainted and bound to fall apart in an ugly situation soon.
2007-03-22 14:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by Firehawk4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, let him know that it is over, but politely tell him why, so even though he won't be happy that it didn't work out he can at least learn from the experience. it will help him in the long run and maybe he will come to appreciate your honesty.
2007-03-22 14:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by tireddad1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firm, direct, but try to be kind as to not hurt his feelings. if a woman wanted to break up with me, i would like a straight forward answer not avoiding me. if a guy can't take a hint after this. then there's just no hope. plain and simple tell him it's over and you don't want to see him again. hope that helps :)
2007-03-22 14:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by j-blueman07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he doesn't have any energy. Exercise produces chemicals in the brain the promote energy. So if the dude is looking and acting lazy he's probably not getting in shape.
2007-03-22 14:25:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You say "I have something I need to tell you. I'm sorry "his name here", I don't think this relationship is working out. I'm sorry, but I think we should stop seeing each other romantically."
something to that effect... be direct, be honest... and be quick about it!!
2007-03-22 14:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by mattorodinku 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about how you would want to receive such news; think about his personality and how tough he is or isn't. Be gentle and honest.
2007-03-22 14:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it ... 'it is not working out' ... You sound very young ... enjoy life! Don't get so serious!
2007-03-22 14:24:49 · answer #8 · answered by daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him the "its not you its me" speech. typical girl blames herself so they dont make the guy feel bad but the wise guys know you women are so full of chit!
2007-03-22 14:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by declaar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends and make space for yourself.
2007-03-22 14:24:12 · answer #10 · answered by mamato3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋