okay...so I have been w/ my boyfrien for over a month...we are both in highschool. However, we go to diff. schools so it's been really hard. We talk on the phone hours at a time,and on weekends go places. But we haven't held hands or nothing. And I don't even know if he's popular or not..and what ppl think of him. I am in a delima cuz I don't know what to do. Please give me some advice on how to become more successfull in the realtionship. He is also very quiet, and I am more out-going..so it's kinda hard! What do I do??
2007-03-22 14:14:52 · 11 answers · asked by Becca C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
although i cannot help in much of the other aspects... I met my gf as a freshman and now im a jr and in another country sometimes its months b4 we see eachother..but we like each other so much its worth it. popularity? better have a faithful boyfriend then one that is so popular you might have to share lol... i dunno if your interested in a long term realtionship.. i know it seems a lot but 1 month isnt that much, i think you can kinda of see how things go for a bit without preassure..(i know this can kinda be hard if someone you would consider going out with is interested in you at your own school... regardless.. men love hard to get women.,..)
2007-03-22 14:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by J. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really like him it shouldnt matter whether he's popular or what anyone thinks of him. and its good hes in another school, if it doesnt work out you wont have to see him all the time. ive seen that people who are shy typically become more outgoing just from being around people who are like that, so the more time you guys spend together the more hell open up. it might be a good thing too that you dont see eahother all the time because you might feel like youre together too much. how far away do you guys live from eachother? if either of you can drive or maybe your parents/siblings could ride you to see him. you might be able to make a deal with your mom to take you over there once or twice a week. i dont know where youre from but when i was in highschool we took buses everywhere.
2007-03-22 14:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter to you if he is popular or not?
Instead of worrying about what goes on at his other school, decide if your time with him is worth your while.
Does he make you laugh? Do you think of yourself as friends? Can you trust eachother?
These things I feel are more important when it comes to a relationship.
2007-03-22 14:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first if you want a good relationship, you have to not care about others' opinion and just focus on what you think. and you could hang out on weekends thats good.
"Love is caring, love is blind, love IS NEVER SELFISH" a quote you should seriously consider for future references. good luck with all this stuff. i know how high school is, im there!
2007-03-22 14:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by Italiana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is hard work to be in a relationship with someone, then you're probably not with the right person. It should be easy.
2007-03-22 14:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by Millionaire in training 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shouldnt matter what ppl think of him or if hes popular. just make a move to hold hand with him
2007-03-22 14:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i learned after high school that it doesnt matter what people think of you or anyone else but what you think...if u like him, then like him....after high school youll never see ninety five percent of those people again anyway so dont let them run nemore of ur life, for all u kno he could be part of ur future
2007-03-22 14:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by serialshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is some one who you really care for, what he is shouldn't really matter too you, try evoking him to be more out going and you can try toneing down a bit for him, and if he valuses you also, he will change a bit for you too.
try focusing on how you to would together
2007-03-22 14:20:48 · answer #8 · answered by korbblack515 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u like him and he likes u, who cares what ppl in his HS think of him. and u should not be worry about holding hands , be ready for the kiss.
2007-03-22 14:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by wouldn't-u-like-to-know ;] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like him u dont worry about if he is popular or anything just get to know him and than ull c
2007-03-22 14:21:50 · answer #10 · answered by indi9891 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋