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I live with my live in boyfriend and don't know how to break it off. I don't see the relationship going anywhere and he's sooo boring. We don't go anywhere and we don't do anything. We've been living together for 7 months and have had sex about 20 times only due to his problem. We have nothing in common. One mjor issue is that my family loves him. PLEASE GIVE ME SINCERE RESPONSES. Thank you!!!

2007-03-22 14:10:56 · 10 answers · asked by Chriselda 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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i say tell him how you feel be honest with him stop putting your life on hold for somone that u dont want to be with and he is living in your house tell him to get the hell out and so what if your parents like him they dont have to live with him its all about you an your happiness put his *** out now

2007-03-22 14:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Start with expressing your feelings to your family first. In case your live in boyfriend decides to stalk you or try to get you back when you leave him, your family will help get him off of you. They can put the pressure on him to leave you alone or else you and your parent's will file for a restraining order. The restraining order is a very scary one for a guy. It's a matter of law then and your boyfriend will be scared to do anything associated with you. It worked for an ex-girlfriend and her family about 16 years ago on me unfortunately. He could be different than me, but I wouldn't consider myself boring. I'm a man of adventure, fun and excitement, so if you are interested in seeing where a new relationship could go, let's chat. You can also do whatever you want and you don't need your family's approval. Just remember to always respect and love your family. If you want to leave him, plan out your escape ahead of time and be nice when you tell him. If he is a nice guy, then you can tell him that you don't think his personality matches with yours and you would like to be friends instead. Obviously, he's going to be heartbroken, but almost everyone goes through this sometime in their life. If they haven't had a hard breakup, the divorce comes as a much worse thing to get over sometime later in life.

2007-03-22 21:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by scottsorgent 2 · 0 0

Oh, thats hard...my boyfriend and I recently moved in together in October, so almost 6 months ago. My family loves him too, and his family loves me...so if I were in the same boat as you and I wanted to break up with him, how would I do it? Yeah...I really have no idea, maybe it is because I don't want to break up with him that I can't think of any nice ways to do it. Maybe after you do break it off pack up your stuff when he isn't home, might make it a little easier on him to not have to watch you pack...good luck and sorry it didn't work.
P.S. Don't stay with someone because your family loves them, it is your happiness that is on the line, not theirs.

2007-03-22 21:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0 0

Well be glad your not married to him. First you need to have some sort of plan you can't tell him you want to breakup if you have nowhere to go. If you both signed the lease you could have some problems you can buy out a lease but its expensive. if your not on the lease then you need to have arrangements in place, do you go to a new apartment, friends etc. Hopefully you don't have to go back to your parents that sounds like a headache waiting to happen.

2007-03-22 21:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by miester44 5 · 0 0

I would think the most painless way is if you get your family behind you.They may love him because they think you do.If they know how you feel they may be more supportive.
2nd-Whose name is on the lease? Not being funny.If yours,tell him you like him as a friend but it is time to go. If it is his place...tell him you like him but is time for YOU to go. Good luck!

2007-03-22 21:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by nil_queen 3 · 0 0

It can be rough but be striaght up and speak from your heart It's never an easy thing.The sooner it's done the sooner you both can begin to heal. Good luck.

2007-03-22 21:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by Oh 3 · 0 0

Thats a hard one...been there done that myself. You just need to be honest with him and yourself and your family. I wasn't and ended up in a TERRIBLE marriage that later ended in divorce-which is a hundred times harder than just breaking up. It will be hard, but you'll be glad you did it sooner than later

2007-03-22 21:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by simba22 1 · 0 0

Just let him know that your feeling for him have changed. Just be truthful and let him know how you feel. Sure he's probably going to be upset but time heals everything and everyone can move on.

good luck!
=o)

2007-03-22 21:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by all4him 3 · 0 0

throw his cloths out the door and tell him you do not want him here no more.

2007-03-22 21:16:12 · answer #9 · answered by jeeccentricx2 5 · 0 0

just do wat your heart tells you to

~i no it sounds cheesy but i like cheese every now and then maybe you do to well best of luck to u my dear~

2007-03-22 21:17:02 · answer #10 · answered by roxy babe 2 · 0 0

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