i remember what that feels like. when i was in middle school i liked this guy who was totally out of my social circle for 2 whole years also. my problem was that i never told him. so after i was over him i found out that he liked me. so first of, if you dont tell him, he will never know. secondly, forget about you hating the popular people in your school. the last thing that will make you forget him is thinking that you really wouldnt like him because of the kind of guy he is, you probably dont even know him at all. in other words, hating him wont make you forget him. (im just writing this in case you try to make that aa solution) to get close to him find out if any of your friends know him. your close friends. you never know. you dont want people who you are not that close with to know your business. if none of your friends know him just go ahead and say hi to him very casually next time you pass him by. and dont stop, keep walking. smile at him whenever you have the chance. make him wonder what you're thinking when you look at him. you can start out with little things little things like these to gain confidence. maybe with enough practice, you may even talk to him. dont dwell on the time you've wasted. i mean, if you say you dont want to forget about him, then what's the point of not doing nothing? get in there and start making moves. and last but not least, whether you guys hit it off or not, dont take things too seriously, you are only 13, just enjoy the feeling. there'll be plenty of time to get serious in the years to come.
2007-03-22 14:19:44
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answered by ♥ 4
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Why do you want to waste your life, causing yourself pain by clinging to things that aren't real? While you're busy injuring yourself and obsessing over something that will never be, the something that easily can be will walk right past you, and you'll miss it. You're far too young to be hanging yourself on a hopeless cause. There's probably someone out there already feeling about you the way you feel about this guy, and you'd be far better off with the guy who adores you, not the guy who ignores you. You're better than that.
2007-03-22 14:11:45
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answered by Irish 3
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im 13 too. i had the same problem and the guy was a year older than me. i was really falling for him, but i knew he didnt like me back. i didnt completely want to stop liking him, i just wanted him to like me too. i dont really no wat to tell u. my crush left the school months ago and i still havent gotten over him totally. my advice is, make sure he doesnt like u. go up and talk to him sometimes and if u dont get that vibe then it will help u to realize that it wont happen. unless it does, which i hope so. well anyway, you will get over him eventually. every1 is trying to learn how. a guy will come that u like that likes u back. dont give up hope, give up him.
if u want some1 to talk to ever email me at karmilton@yahoo.com
2007-03-22 14:10:45
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answered by karen 5
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Gurl u gotta let go, its hard but focus on something else other than him, sooner or later he'll become interested in you or you'll totally forget about him. But either way there will be other guys, betta believe that
2007-03-22 14:07:36
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answered by Anonymous
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im kind of in the same position. i have been for like FOREVER. when i told some one, they made a big deal about it. she has a cell phone, and man i wish i did but i cant till i get a job(so stupid), so she was texting him during school and he told her a secret. she wasnt supposed to tell anyone, but shes like my best friend so how could she not. well apparently he kind of like me too but never said anything cuz i went out with his cousin. as soon as everyone heard about this he deffinetly didnt want to make a move. (i really have to tell this story to someone even though it probably doesnt help you one bit) the guy im talking about, his name is Jeffery, well he told his bestfriend Daniel about this. Daniel is(or was) going out with my friend Jordan(girl not guy) and she has the biggest mouth on the planet so thats how that got around.
idk what you should do. people have been mean to me about this whole thing: like cody(my friend but jokes around too much) had some electric problem in his house. and jefferys dad is an electrician. so jeffery went to help is dad at codys house or whatever. and cody STOLE jefferys cell phone and found me in his contacts and called me and pretended to be jeffery AND ASKED ME OUT!!! my best friend(from the top) asked jeffery about wut happened and when she told me i was SOO mad. i went crazy. cody was scared of me for the rest of the day. he kept apologizing and i eventually gave in. but that still tics me off.
All of the rest of my friends have been really nice and sympathetic about it all.
sorry this is all a waste of your time!~ =)
2007-03-22 14:24:53
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answered by megan'sthename 2
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he might be popular right now. but years down the line..70% of the guys who were popular in their school turn out to be quite ugly` - you'll turn out to be a dazzle in your college days and you'll really wonder to yourself ''is this really the guy i was after''. so chill and as of now draw all your attempts to be friends with him. remember if guys like you they go all out and chase you, so clearly he's not that into you.wouldn't you want a guy who finds you intriguing enough to pursue you,?
2007-03-22 14:13:26
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answered by spin spin sunshine 4
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Ask a friend for help. Try to avoid being around him, if possible. There is no point torturing yourself over someone who doesn't care.
2007-03-22 14:06:40
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answered by Anonymous
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hi my name is katie and im 14 i have crushe now for over a year now and he knows i like him and he used to like me.anyway but does he know that u like him? does he know u exist? does he have a girl friend try talking to him once u get to know him ask him to go out with u ! here email me nibbysmoma13@yahoo.com
2007-03-22 14:10:13
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answered by Anonymous
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As long as you're too shy to say anything to him, nothing is ever going to happen. you need to do somethin'. And if you don't, then its safe to say that he will never be yours. The choice is left up to you.
2007-03-22 14:06:45
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answered by pyroman162 2
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don't think about him, engage into some kind of entertainment go out with friends when he comes to your mind remember he doesn't like you and you be playing the fool.. and soon hell be out of your heart.
2007-03-22 14:12:38
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answered by grace 2
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