we've been together for about 2 and a half years. we don't see each other much because we both work all week, only on weekends we spend time together, last weekend she went to a family party and did not invite me, i don't understand why, everytime i plan to go somewhere i have the courtesy to ask her to go with me even if i think she's going to say no, I felt offended by what she did and now i don't know what's up. i'm starting to feel different about this whole relationship.
2007-03-22 13:59:32 · 6 answers · asked by cloudrat7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't give up on the relationship just yet. Just ask her why she decided not to ask you.
2007-03-22 14:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u really have to think that u guys have been under a lot of stress and its been a lil bit difficult for u guys to see each other. she went to a family party, so probably she just wanted to be with her family, probably she hadnt seen a few of them in a long time, and wanted to catch up. probably she just wanted to scape from the routine. i dont really know why she didnt invite u, the only one nwho knows is her. ask her urself, she ll tell u. tell her how she feels about the relationship, and if she s been having second thoughts. and ask urself the same questions, u guys havent been seeing each other lately... do u still feel strongly in love with her??? if u dont, this is the time to end the relationship. if either of u guys feel u aint in loev with each other anymore, than breaking up is the best thing to do. because u guys wont be able to stand each other later on. i hope that s not the case, and tha teverything works out for u. but anyways, whatever is bothering u, say it to her face, only way u can actually find out waht s going on in her mind, is if u face her talk about the problem try to solve it out. only way u can make a progress in a relationship is by talking out the issue.
2007-03-22 14:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're planning to spend the rest of your lives together, it's best to learn now how to communicate with each other. Sit her down and tell her how it made you feel. Talk about it openly with each other, even if the you don't like what she's saying. The key to a good relationship is knowing how to talk to each other and resolve differences in a mature way. :)
2007-03-22 14:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds more like ur buggin' dude. seriously, dont over react about a little thing. ask her why, thats all u can do. she may have a reason why she didnt invite u...such as it may have been only family at the time.....yes ur engaged but not married yet. just be up front about it and ask her why. its no biggy.
2007-03-22 14:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that maybe you should ask her about it before you jump to conclusions. Maybe she assumed you wouldnt have wanted to go
2007-03-22 14:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by tallbluewoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez, get a grip!
did you WANT to go with her?
it was probably boring and she knew you wouldnt like it
2007-03-22 14:03:26 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋