I told her to tell him off, which she did, but she told me it was hard telling him to backoff. I feel worried because she still have feelings for him and she says she loves me. Do i trust her? is our new relationship going to last? or would she still be having that feelings for her ex, which means she might not love me well. what do i do because i love her but i'm scared
2007-03-22 13:58:02 · 12 answers · asked by Kiddo C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like she doesn't know what she wants!You need to sit down and talk to her in till she gives you a straight answer,if she going to get over her ex.If she can't then...Dump her. plus ,if you have to doubt your trust for her...then i dont think its going to last...because if you have no trust ,you have nothing.
2007-03-22 14:04:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant start a relationship with someone if they still have feelings for an ex partner, things will just get messy in the long run, for a relationship to work, it needs 2 people to make it work properly otherwise you'll be left with broken heart further down the line, ask her to make a choice him or you> at least then after you will no who she really wants..
2007-03-22 21:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me she is not over her ex and she is on the rebound. be honest and tell her how you feel and what your worried about if she had no feelings for her ex she would tell him she moved on and wants him out of her life. If she is not willing to do that they you may want to end the relationship until she figures out her feelings. She can care for you and still be in love with him. DOn't be second fiddle to another man find someone whos emotions are not tangled up with a ex and who can love you the way you love them.
2007-03-22 21:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a possibility that you are the rebound guy. What was the reason they broke up. How long had they been apart before you two started your relationship. Those are two very improtant questions you need to ask. Good Luck
2007-03-22 21:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by btjuana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that she might be better off with the X. that will do 1 of 2 things, either she will go back to him and you will know that she truly does have feelings for him and it wasnt meant to be or she will be pushed more away from him. if she decides to stay with you then tell her you dont want to hear anything about him and tell her to stop talking to him. tell her if she screws up then you will end the relationship and MEAN IT! stop being scared of losing her cuz it will make you appear like your weak and women HATE weak men. believe you are better then him and better for her and she will follow your lead.
2007-03-22 21:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by declaar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its extremely difficult to truely end feeling for someone when you still care and your with another already. Certain things within your own relationship will constantly remind her of her ex. This could be something only time will heal...good luck.
2007-03-22 21:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok its okay. i did this to a guy once. she does still have feeling for her ex, but they'll pass. just be there for her if she ever goes through any sadness over not having him. i know that will be very hard for you to do, but it will make her like you much more. trust me, her feelings for him will pass. just give her some time and support. (its best to tell her that you're there for her, when it comes to ANYTHING including her ex)
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-22 21:02:50 · answer #7 · answered by Mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you guyus need to take a break until she gets this ex thing situated. Then when it is stituated then you guys can back put. Or you can dump her and find someone new.
2007-03-22 21:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by Briann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just engourage her to make her own choice. If she truly loves you she will get over her last relationship.
But you can't tell her to stop loving him. That will make her think twice about your own integrity.
Just be supportive.
2007-03-22 21:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by aries2110 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away from this one, and look for someone else.
2007-03-22 21:02:37 · answer #10 · answered by sm177y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋