Serious answers only PLEEZ! My friend was having sex with his girlfriend and said that she started crying during it and it really freaked him out. He doesnt know why though. He asked me and i didnt know either. Have any suggestions? Or do you know why? Is that common?
2007-03-22 13:51:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
em...it hurts? its waaaaay too good?
2007-03-22 13:54:05 · answer #1 · answered by Ψ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm - that's a new one.
obviously, intercourse is a very intimate, personal thing. that i think we all understand. it may be that the feeling and experience was just way too good. i've had people that told me they've cried while getting a massage. which can also be true, because there are those pressure points in our body that stimulate us one way or the other.
i'm not sure if it's "common"...because I've personally never heard of that happening. what i also know is that sometimes intercourse can be painful. but, my guess would be - she would have figured that out and stopped, rather than cry through the entire experience.
my guess would be, she had a really good, intimate experience that night.
2007-03-25 23:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by luke_r1996 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a woman has sex they go through many different emotions. They go through emotions just to have sex, and yet there are always more to follow.
For some there's more emotions.
As in my ex wife, she used to always cry. Why? Because emotionally she was connecting with me so much she was just overcome with joy, pleasure and love.
The ex wasn't the only one. Three women in my lifetime have cried during, or mostly, right after hitting that big o.
2007-03-22 20:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have cried during sex, but not a sobbing, blubbering, bawl of tears...it was more like a single tear or two shed as I experienced the culmination of the love I have for the person I was with and the emotional experience led to a tear or two. But, there is nothing at all wrong with a tear or two during sex.
2007-03-22 21:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by Challenge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The, emotions that she has coming from her can be so great that the only way to get it out is to cry. Yes it is a common, or I hope to think it is. My bf was kinda shocked the first time but he now know that when I do that, he was really good. lol
2007-03-22 20:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by btjuana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can think of two reasons why she would cry:
1. During intercourse, she has a high level of estrogen and increased blood flow causing her to become more emotional. High levels of estrogen are to blame for some women getting "teary-eyed" during their cycle.
2. She has such a deep connection between sex and love that it literally brings her to tears; this is a compliment to her mate.
2007-03-22 21:01:30 · answer #6 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read an article that said it was a 'balancing of emotions' thing... you feel really ecstatic and nice, so you swing to the opposite emotion to balance it out... crying. It didn't make much sense to me, but there... I read it.
Unless of course her eyes were just watering... I've definitely never cried during sex, but sometimes my eyes water.
2007-03-22 20:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by Marj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of a surge of emotion that she does not know how to process. Crying is not uncommon, but usually done by less sexually experienced females. She could be feeling guilty, ashamed, really enjoying it or it could be painful. Have your friend (tenderly) ask her why she crys.
2007-03-22 20:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Queen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When female cry doing sex there no problem it's that it's feeling real good to them.and the only way express it and that to cry.So keep on giving it to her the right way boy.
2007-03-22 21:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by lisa m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is so pleasureable that she just needs to exert some sort of emotion before her dam walls rupture and the pleasure of climax flows forth, destroying the town nestled below
2007-03-22 20:55:04 · answer #10 · answered by Modus Operandi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
from a female's point of view it is because we care about the person we are with and the emotions are so overpowering we cry not because we are upset or hurt but its emotional and the connection we are feeling with the other person is very strong they are tears of joy
2007-03-22 20:56:28 · answer #11 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋