ok so my friends hate my bf and everytime we're around him like at my locker and school games they dont talk to him and like we were talking about going to see a moive and i asked them what they thought about me inviting him and they just gave me a weird look. so i dont want to lose my bf or my friends. AHHHH!!! what should i do??
2007-03-22 13:46:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it sounds like they are not good friends, if they were really your real friends , they would at least be happy for you and try to like your boyfriend, You need to talk to your friends , and ask them why they don't like your boyfriend
2007-03-22 13:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be a few reasons for their "distaste" in your boyfriend:
1. You are spending all of your extra time with him and it's starting to really bother your friends. A lot of girls tend to be "all AND nothing" when it comes to boyfriends; in other words, they spend every waking minute with him AND none with their friends unless he is there as well.
2. Your boyfriend isn't right for you. Your friends have a better perspective on your boyfriend than you since you see him through rose-colored glasses. This is a big problem for women in "love".
3. They are jealous of your relationship. This happens a lot with younger girls, unfortunately.
4. A combination of the three above.
In any case, you need to sit your friends down, ALONE, without your boyfriend around and get to the bottom of the behavior. Make sure when you have this talk with them that you go into it with your ears open and not in defense mode. Good luck. :)
2007-03-22 20:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends will be there but your man not there is definantly a reason why they dont like him but just keep this in the back of your mind your friends will catch you when u fall if you ever do p.s my mothers best friend in high school never liked her boy friend. her boyfriend tureed out to be my father and they have been married for 21 years
2007-03-22 20:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by little Life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to me a few times. The only thing i can tell you is listen to your friends. they are usual right. And do things for the better
2007-03-22 20:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one you should stay with him if you really like him. then you also shouldn't really care what your friends think about him. Its you who should care about him. They should be your friend. They should like you. They don't have to like your friends. But if you care what your friends think about your boyfriend. Then ask them how come they don't like your boyfriend. When they tell you and its not a good enough reason to hate him then tell them to grow up. but if it is then still stay with him. Don't give him up all because of your friends. Don't give up your friends for him. When your friends want to do aomething with you by theirselves don't ask if you should invite your boy. They just want to spend time with you and not your boyfriend. Then when your boy wants to spend time with you. Don't ask if your frineds can come. He just wants to spend time with and no one else. Then make time with all of them sometime. Make time for your friends and your boyfriend.
2007-03-22 20:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by Briann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out why they dont like him
if their being jerks
**** them their not good friends
2007-03-22 20:53:10 · answer #6 · answered by jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋