What do you do when your heart breaks, and you are in so much sadness and sorrow, u just think about all the past wonderful times u had with her. At that point you just want a nice tight hug and want someone to talk to. How to do you get that tight hug when theirs no one around you whom you can go and talk to about your feeling as you dont want to tell everyone about it. How can u achieve that comforting hug???
2007-03-22 13:42:03 · 21 answers · asked by bond4uin2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Life's a bittch. Get over it.
2007-03-22 13:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
There are no family or friends you can talk to without mentioning specifics? A disinterested party who knows you but not the girl in question, so you can be honest? If so, get a hug from them.
There's nothing wrong with a bit of a pity party in this kind of situation, but if you truly are alone in the world then it's really best if you shrug it off for now and tough it out. Acknowledge what happened, what you can learn from the experience, and that you're upset. But then get a hobby, volunteer someplace, go out to a club, work out, or get busy in some other way, because the more time you spend lounging around stewing in your grief, the more it will spiral out of control.
Oh, and I would totally give you a hug if I could!
2007-03-22 13:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by Marj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand in your room with your back to the mirror. Stretch your arms forward. Place your right palm on your left shoulder, as far back as you can reach. Place your left palm on your right side, as far back as you can reach. Now turn your head. In the mirror, it will look like someone's hugging you. That's what I do.
Sorry to hear that you're broken hearted. It will pass. Call a friend on the phone maybe. Just don't talk to THAT person, that's actually bad for you.
2007-03-22 13:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You use your imagination! Aside from the wnkrs most of us on Answers would like to give you a big hug right about now!Some of us are big gruff Yorkshiremen but you'll just have to forget that and focus on the cute chicks instead!
2007-03-22 14:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well listening to some of my favourite Cd's or watching a movie. u could call u best buddy or sister, well someone close to u, jus don't keep it bottled in cuz that could kill ya. I did that once and gave myself a bad headache so cheer up and put that smile back on ya face.hey u can hug a teddy bear lol
2007-03-22 14:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by Bluey07 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is some advice i got about the same thing u see bout a year ago i got dumped my this guy that i trully did love and a part of me still does but we were together for 2 years and i have know him for 9 years and i thought everything was fine but one day he told me that he loved me but wasnt in love with me any more and i was heart broken i thopught i could die so i got depressed i didnt understand how it could happen and what did i do for him to do that to me and then i thought well maybe it wasnt supose to be i never regret use being together or wat went on between us i just took one day at a time breathed and try to find a new hobby u never know wat is going to happen now a year later we are back to being friends we talk bout the past sometimes but only bout the good stuff and laugh at all of the silly stuff we did but never regret wat happened we are here to learn from our mistakes and make sure we do better in the future.
2007-03-22 13:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by heather k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hug my pets, I have two kitties and when I need a hug and nobody is there I hug my kitties and the best part of it is, kitties don't know how to talk so they can't tell on you!!!! Go hug a child, a neice of nefew, they love hugs, Take care Heather
2007-03-22 13:46:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A great big virtual hug from Gypsy >:D<
I'm so sorry you're feeling bad. I think if you have a female friend you can talk to, she might be more understanding than a male friend.
God bless.
2007-03-22 13:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a big fluffy pillow, wrap your arms and legs around it, close your eyes tight and squeeze. Then eat chocolate. Sending a great big hug to you babe.
2007-03-22 13:57:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask a friend, prefrebly a female friend to give u a biiiiiiiiiig, cuddly, teddy bear hug and squeeze u so hard, sooo hard, that u feel its out of your system totally and DONT look down her top. thats something totally a NO GO area.
2007-03-22 14:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by allgiggles1984 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i listen to music and it tells me every thing i want to hear.
for hug it u have great friend around you that will be a good way to get hug but if not u let it be.
2007-03-22 13:46:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋