What did you do, and how did it work out?
2007-03-22 13:37:47 · 13 answers · asked by slipstreamer 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you sure there, poster forever?
2007-03-22 13:44:51 · update #1
Okay you rude people, this isn't about me, so lighten up! Sometimes people are just curious. If you don't have any actual answes, don't bother to be insulting, just say no and collect your points.
2007-03-22 13:46:40 · update #2
Yea I did that before. I dumped him for another guy I liked. So when I got with the new guy I realized I still had feelings for my ex, more than I realized. So what I did next was try to get my ex back. he wouldn't have me. So what I did next was let it go and kept on with the new guy I dumped my ex for. It wasn't like I didn't have feelings for the new guy, I was very much interested in him. Some time later I ran into my ex again and I didn't feel a thing. That's when I REALIZED SOMETHING ELSE. What I realized was I really DIDNT have feelings for him like I thought I did after I broke up with him. What I was experiencing was an ego bust, because when I dumped him he didn't make a big deal of it, he didn't try to get me back, he just let me go & went on with his life, and THAT'S what got to me - when I went back for him I wasn't feeling anything for him like I THOUGHT I was, I was only trying to repair and feed my EGO. And the whole time I had forgotten all about the reasons I DID dump him for the new guy in the first place.
In the end I was glad he didn't take me back. Because the NEW GUY turned out to be a real gem.
2007-03-22 13:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talked with them to let them know what a nincompoop I was and how sorry I am. Sometimes it will work if the party still cares, other times it will not. Talking to the person is the only way that you will be able to determine what to do next. Good luck and God Bless
2007-03-22 13:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done it twice. i broke up with a guy but buy the time I realized I really liked him it was to late. There was another time I did it and we eventually got back together. Although I cared about him, I realized the reason why I left him and we broke up again. It took time but eventually I was over him.
2007-03-22 13:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by btjuana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have done that. i thought that i didn't really love my ex Kyle so i broke up with him and everyone told me that i totally crushed him and i didn't really believe anyone and said that he had brought it upon himself. then i went on and got a BF like 9 months later and i basicly have been a speed dater ever since. or thats what my friends call it, i get a guy to chase me and i chase him then i get him and after like 1 month i end it cause he's not as good as Kyle. and i get a little emotional at times and just miss him like crazy but then they go away. so just keep your chin up and just push it to the back of your mind and even though it won't really ever go away it will be so buried that after a while you don't really remember it after a while.
<3
Megg
2007-03-22 13:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really; the closest I came to this scenario was when I and my girlfriend broke up at practically the same time. She said I'd find someone else first but she was wrong; she did (I believe) and I believe she married and had kids.
2007-03-22 13:44:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he dumped me he moved to the uk for work, i just since then have never felt that greatness with a guy, we were so compatible i love him miss him all the time.
2007-03-22 13:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by sugarpantsangel21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah but in a diiferent way. when i broke up with an ex i was still single and enjoying it well i had a crush on some boy and well i regret never asking him out when i was dateing some one.
2007-03-22 13:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by James Dean Girl <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get over it. Stay focused on the new guy. If you dumped him , it wasn't meant to be.
2007-03-22 13:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by KuRlZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have, but when you realized it it was probably to late...anyways it probably was not meant to be, and all second parts of a past relationship never goes well..
2007-03-22 13:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dumped my ex and knew i loved him but, letting him go was the only way to my happiness.
sometime u love and really need to let go, even u love him or her deeply.
it such but it live.
2007-03-22 13:43:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋