I've been dating this guy for almost five mths now. Then a couple days ago, my friend told me that she likes him. She once dated my boyfriend and they broke up, but my bf still liked her alot, until i came along, adn bout half a year ago, i became his first choice and she became his third.
i heard from my other friend, that she wants to take him away from me. i don't know what to do, i don't want to lose my bf, and i don't want to lose this friendship. why did she choose such a time to like him? she had her chance, and she didn't treasure it. infact she had more than one chance to be with him, and she didn't take it. and now, she chooses to want him...
WHAT SHOULD I DO?? ;_; i know if he loves me , he wont care about her at all, but i don't know what he'd think if he knows... wut shud i do??
2007-03-22 13:36:37 · 12 answers · asked by iwuvsu_jc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should believe in what you have with your boyfriend and the love you both share!!.... don´t be scare of her, because you will not have a life! because tomorrow could be someone at his work..or at the supermarket...or at the movies...etc who knows? and that´s something you cannot stop from happening....
So, I´ll not pay attention on what you heard... try to forget it...but if YOU see something going on, then talk to her and tell her you care a lot for him and to respect your relationship...she is a friend no? and later I´ll talk to my boyfriend and communicate all my feelings in this matter so he can choose what to do... but don´t feel scare so early! nothing is happening! OK?
2007-03-22 13:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by staytrue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing, Hon. If you are secure in the knowledge that your BF likes YOU, then she is no threat.
Aside from that, there's not much you really can do anyways; you can be kind and attentive to your boyfriend to show him how much you care, but in the end he'll make up his own mind.
That being said, I can't tell you how much it pains me to see young females competing with each other for boys. You are all part of the sisterhood, and there are more than enough guys to go around. I wish your "friend" knew this.
2007-03-22 20:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is trying to steal your boyfriend from you, then she is not a real friend, and you should not consider her feelings thus.
I think you need to talk to your boyfriend about your feelings. Tell him what is going on and how you are afraid to lose him. Ask him if he still has feelings for her, and tell him how you feel about him.
I think this is a talk that you guys need to have. Good luck!
2007-03-22 20:42:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all shes not a friend AT ALL, tell him and let him make his decision between the two if your sure then he'll pick you, whatever the case may be , she is Not your friend she just wants what you have because shes jealous of you and yours, and ask anyone that is no kind of friendship, tell her to hit the road, before she hurts you real bad
2007-03-22 20:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by Rºññèè 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dam^ that is really messed up and tough you should ask your boy friend about her be prepared for that mental block though cause he might tell u something you dont want to hear but its probably just a case of the x she wants him back badly. keep that bitchhh very close though because all is fair in love and war
2007-03-22 20:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by little Life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT? This is insanity. This girl might WANT to move in on your boyfriend. But if your boyfriend's not into her, he's not going anywhere. Just make sure that her and this guy don't spend too much time together.
2007-03-22 20:42:02 · answer #6 · answered by LSD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work like you don't need the money.
Love like you've never been hurt.
Dance like nobody's watching.
Sing like nobody's listening.
Live like it's Heaven on Earth.
2007-03-22 20:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well a friend should not try to take someone from u that she knows u love thats wrong i wouldnt be friends with her thats not a true friend to me and the guy if he truly loved u he wouldnt ditch u for a friend thats lust not love
2007-03-22 20:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by stacystacy12345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be honest with him about how you feel and find out how he really feels about you instead of sitting around worrying about it all of the time.
life is too short to spend it worrying about things all of the time.
be cool...
2007-03-22 20:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice friend.
this girl is not your friend. time to get a new one.
and, you are right if he cares for you no matter what she does.
2007-03-22 21:13:10 · answer #10 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋