I've been talking to some girls cautiously maybe thinking about dating them. When I talk to them on the phone, they sometimes brings up her ex boyfriend and I'm thinking that she's not over him yet. That scares me away. But if I'm think I can trust a girl and I think she likes me but she goes off with someone else before I can ask her on a date, it's a little discouraging. Are they insecure or am I just picking the wrong girls to ask to go on a date. Some of these girls already have kids from other guys.
2007-03-22 13:25:13 · 8 answers · asked by Chris W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are probably at a learning stage in your life pertaining to who you are and what you want. You learn and grow through education and experience. Do not be afraid to date and get to know people. You will meet some of the wrong ones, but you will also meet some of the right ones. Take your time , enjoy your life, you have great instincts.
2007-03-22 13:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if they have kids then i wouldnt talk to them do you want to be helping take care of those kids?? think so your self are you ready for some of that responiblitly but yeah i think that you just need to go get your self a good nice girl with no kids and have a little fun and makes sure she isnt going on dates with someone else every other weekend and then coming back to you
2007-03-22 20:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by tropical_sweety2587 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do young guys like yourself generalize girls to being sluts just because they've had bad experiences with a couple of them? Or better yet, why do you go around sleeping around with these girls anyways if you dislike them that much? Think about that before you decide to be so ignorant.
2007-03-22 20:30:24 · answer #3 · answered by May 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls don't get pregnet by dating .If these girls are having kids, this means their having unprotected sex . So you need to be careful with who you have sex with, not really who date . It's ok to date, you'll find the right girl soon. The only bad thing is there more wrong girls out there then right ones .
2007-03-22 20:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by kenken81 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are picking the wrong girls to ask to go on a date
2007-03-22 20:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are alot of social problems in big cities and unfortunately many girls do not have good role models. my advice to you is really shop around and if you dont have kids find a girl who doesnt have children
2007-03-22 20:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are unrealistic and since you aren't asking them out, don't expect them to wait around. Bust a move, dude.
2007-03-22 20:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE THEY ARE TRAMPS....R U SHE-MALE
2007-03-22 20:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by eldiablo0731 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋