So Im 17 right...and it happend the other day...now I dont know if I should tell her or not... will she think less of me...any suggestions...
2007-03-22 13:18:01 · 16 answers · asked by LT07--MoXy--07LT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aww! Yeah go ahead! I mean if you trust her and since she is going out with you, then she probably won;t care because she likes you! Plus whever a girl gets a guys first kiss they always feel special!And if she dumps you just for that she's crazy because thats a stupid reason to break up with someone!
2007-03-22 13:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by Juls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 17 too, and I just had my first kiss last weekened. But she wasn't my girlfriend, unfortunately. That made it even more awkward, and I must admit I never did say anything about it. At that point, it wasn't worth the risk of any sort of embarassment that might result.....since, after all, we weren't even dating.....But since you guys are dating, then why not tell her? I can't imagine any girl taking that kind of information a bad way. Most girls would probably find it charming. But if not, and it seems like you'd have more to lose than to gain from telling her, then best not even bother. If she couldn't tell it was your first kiss anyway, then how can it matter!
2007-03-22 20:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by Justin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all: AWWWWWWWWWWWW =D u must be happy =]
ok, so about ur gf...well I know it seems like a big deal not being kissed till you're 17 (A friend of mine didn't get hers till she was 16 so no worries there =P), but its not impossible or improbable even. Whether u choose to tell your gf or not is your choice, depending on the type of person she is, and the status of ur relationship. But coming from a girl, I think I would love it if my bf told me that i was his first kiss...it would mean he belonged only to me ^_^...and if she is like most girls she will perceive it as that too ^_^ and it will make her happy that she's ur first =]. So really, I think if you can trust this girl and like her enough to be with her then you should tell her.
PS: first timers aren't that hard to tell, so maybe she already knows, but just hasn't said anything because she wants you to tell her yourself...have you considered that?.
Good luck! =D
2007-03-22 20:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by May 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had a boyfriend and he told me that, I'd be HAPPY! I'd know that he'd never kissed another girl besides me and that would make me feel so special! If she's been with lots of guys and has kissed a lot then she might not care, but if she's a nice respectable girl she will probably think it's cute! You should tell her! =]
2007-03-22 20:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by †StrongAsDeath† 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if you should tell her yet...it seems liike it is early in your relationnship and although it is stupid that she may judge you for it...the truth is that she might...she probably wants to be with someone with experience but on the other hand she might think it is really cute and sweet that she is your first kiss!
2007-03-22 20:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by *Mariah* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your GIRLFRIEND that will make her feel special.
I'm seventeen too man, my first kiss was a disaster i was 12 so I was still a kid. If I had a choice I'd like to be able to give it again now.
2007-03-22 20:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by NavyBoi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was your girlfriend, I wouldn't think less of you. In fact, I would think our kiss was a lot more special!
Tell her!
2007-03-22 20:22:10 · answer #7 · answered by ilovethe90s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes...of course you should! If she thinks of you any differently, she isn't worth your time. I gave my current boyfriend his first kiss as well. He wasn't shy in telling me that, and I don't think of him differently. If anything, I find him more cute.
2007-03-22 20:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by jjoellecody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should! She will feel special knowing she was your first, and for all you know, it was her first too. Even if it wasn't, if she really loves you, she will feel happy that she gave you your first. I don't think she would think any less of you.
2007-03-22 20:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by purplegrl28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes tell her she might find it 2 be cute... & now she knows that u have gotten around...
if she start trippin then i would say get rid of her cause i mean she gotta respect that!
2007-03-22 20:28:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋