We have a 6 yr old together and we've been on and off for like 4 yrs now. He started dating a girl who is 12 yrs younger than him and 2 weeks ago he moved in with her. Now hes telling me it was the biggest mistake hes ever made , that shes driving him nuts, and he wants to work things out with me, but hes still gonna be living there for a while because she promised him money from some settlement check shes getting and he wants to buy a new truck! I cant stand him being there, and I think if he'd cheat on her with me then, im signing myself up for failure. But I do love him. What should I do?
2007-03-22 13:08:09 · 4 answers · asked by Me, myself, & I 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He'd rather have a new truck than sincerely make an effort with you or he'd move out ASAP
2007-03-22 13:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by salinger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep moving. If he really wanted to get back with you nothing would stand in his way of that. Don't settle for just anything. You deserve more than that. It's obvious that he doesn't want to be in a committed relationship. He can't even be faithful to the female he is with now. Things are not going to change. He's is only looking out for himself and what others can do for him. If he was any kind of a man he would be focusing on how to get his own truck and not mooching off of a female. Don 't set yourself up for a natural disaster.
2007-03-22 13:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by Seanette 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Half way through reading your statement I came to the conclusion that your ex is a user, then I came to the part about how he's waiting for some settlement from the woman he's with, which pretty much told me I was right. HE USES WOMEN SWEETIE! I wouldn't rush to get in that line if I were you. Try to get over him, and leave him alone otherwise, you'll be making a HUGE mistake.
2007-03-22 13:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by sustasue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on this just spells drama....he is living and sleeping with some chick for a truck, what a pig. How would you feel if you were her, this guy is a loser....you can do better than a slimeball that uses girls and sleeps around.
2007-03-22 13:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋