Me and my girlfriend have been not understanding eachother lately. She doesnt put in an effort (but says she does) and she doesn't act like she cares. Her friends are all single and they always chill with guys (friends). She goes with them and the guys always are drunk, although she doesn't. Im not stupid i know how drunk guys are. EVERY time shes not with me and she goes out it's with guys, and this is not an over statement. She fooled around with a guy once, but it was when me and her were talking, not going out so i got over it, although we liked eachother. I asked for a break because of these reasons and she said she needed space then, but the next day she came to see me twice and said she'd call me when she got home. I asked her what happened to the whole space thing and she said she didn't want it to be over. I would take her back but i'd want to know shes different. She use to be perfect, then she just sort of changed. She would NEVER cheat on me so don't say it.
2007-03-22 13:07:00 · 6 answers · asked by Hurt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want to take her back but deep down i know i hate the way shes been being. Sould i hold out untill i see a difference or give her another chance right away?
2007-03-22 13:07:49 · update #1
I'd take her out on a romantic date by yourselves w/ u paying.. Talk to her about this, if she wants to break up let her, if not work it out as a couple, tell her your kinda bothered by her hanging out w/ these guys...Maybe she'll do it less..
2007-03-22 13:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all ignore the imbecil who answered you first. Secondly, I think you should respond to her the way she has to you. If she treats you nicely and with respect then you treat her the same way. If in turn, she is disrespectful of your feelings and goes out with guys who are always drunk when she knows you hate it then keep your distance for a while until she realizes you are serious. She's got to believe you in order to take you seriously so don't just "take her back" right away if she's still exhibiting this indifferent behavior. Remember; actions speak louder than words. Anyone can say anything, it's what they do that counts. Also, nobody in the world is perfect. Everyone deserves a second chance (well almost everyone) If she is too immature to recognize your goodness then move on. Good luck.
2007-03-22 20:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by dancergalny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend is going through this same situation, she broke up with the guy but he begged her to take him back,she did and now things arent that well between them..........You have to let your girlfriend know how you feel, tell her that if she can't be serious and commited you will have to let her go.....I know it will be a hard thing to do but you'll get over it....trust me,you'll be fine!
2007-03-22 20:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by Crazilicous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are ever going to trust her that's when you should get back with her. if your feeling Little insecure about her with other guys you need to re evaluate the situation/relationship. even though she cheated (when you guys were friends), that made you think about if she does that to you. but i doubt it if she is in a relationship she will cheat . but you have to let her know what problems you are having when she is hanging out with other guys. tell her that you don't' like it.
2007-03-22 20:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by Ryah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to her. tell her how your feeling its always the best solution. If you dnt trust her the only thing i can say is... A relationship wont work without trust (im talking from experience)
2007-03-22 20:14:03 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a chance if you think it is what you should do, but don't let her keep stringing you along.
2007-03-22 20:11:56 · answer #6 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋