Roommate/Relationship?

Question

This may sound weird to most of you, but I am being serious. I live with 2 other guys and we are all 24. 1 of my roommates just started bringing this girl over like 10 days ago. Since the first time she came over, she has been sleeping over every night and hanging out here ever day. I don't understand how a relationship can go from never coming over to hanging out 24/7. The thing is he has never introduced her to me and my other roommate. This girl is over 24/7 and we don't even know her name! And when I come home from school, I see them spooning on the couch. It is finals week, so the other roommate and I told him not to bring her over cuz we need to study. He says she won't come over, and then we see 5 minutes later. This happened 3 times. Last night, I was woken up by sounds of sex. I can understand that he wants to be w/her 24/7 because she is his first love (he a virgin before), but come on now! A little respect for your roommates! What more can I do? He won't listen to me.

Answer 1

Its not weird, but it is disrespectful. He seems to have forgotten than he shares a place with two other people. The solution to this is quite simple: Remind him.

The two of you need to sit him down and tell him that you don't appreciate the fact that there is someone there 24/7 who you were never introduced to and that you don't appreciate the fact that he is not considerate enough to allow you space to study for finals.

If he still won't listen, then the number of people who reside there needs to change whether it is you or him.

Answer 2

Sabatoge their night...be loud - and obnoxious, and make sure they can't have any privacy....make them want to go else where - or else tell her to go home...forget the guy just tell the chick that you're sorry to be so rude but you need to study.

Answer 3

Why dont you suggest that they go to her place sometimes.