I think what makes me like him is that he seems like a guy who i can seduce and wrap around my finger. I am not arrogant but a lot of guys find me attractive at my school and i don't really like any of them. But this dork(literally he is a loser) who isn't even super hot or anything won't leave my mind. I am so nice to him but he hates me and that makes me want him even more. Its so confusing because guys like him typically are obssesed with me. Why isn't he? He doesn't overtly insult me but he isn't flirtatious and he ignores me a lot. Why can't I stop thinking about him???
2007-03-22 12:29:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're looking for a chase, and i totally understand that.
but i'd lay off the flirts for a while,
he might see is as kinda stalker..ish.
2007-03-22 12:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by emmieface 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd bet he's probably too proud of himself...maybe he thinks he's so irresistible just because of how dork/rude he is with women (or even with you because he's driving you crazy and he knows that). There is no point where this guy will give you anything back, I dont think this is gonna make you happy. It will be a always the same. Usually these kinds of people never change. You need to go out with other guys, guys who treat you the way you expect and deserve to be treated as a woman. You probably still have a hope that he will change and say one day: hey, you know what, I like you now...lets get together...I honestly dont think you should sweat for him anymore. Just let it go and look for something that you really deserve. If you are a good girl, why are you going to stay suffering for free?? not worth it. Good luck :D
2007-03-22 19:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by bloodymary24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has been burned before by a woman of your type and that is why he treats you like this. You are attracted to him because of his "untamed" attitude he now holds after being burned so bad. He will change back to his old self eventually when he meets the right woman.
You shouldn't be trying to wrap your finger around any guy. He will just get meaner to you if you do. Try being his friend first if you want to get to know him.
2007-03-22 19:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by Mista R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're as desirable as you say you are, you're used to guys falling all over themselves to be with you. This guy represents a challenge to you, and you won't be able to forget about him until he falls under your spell like he's "supposed to". Trust me, as a former hottie myself, I understand how inriguing a "challenge" can be. (I'm old and married now.)
2007-03-22 19:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know its been said we like the men who don't give as any attention that is maybe why you like him because he don't notice you and they other guys do so its new this guy doesn't like you and that gets to you believe me it'll pass you"ll get over your crush.
2007-03-22 19:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by Bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be full of yourself gawd. u just admitted that "everyone likes you hahaha you're so freggin hott to everyone!" he probably hates you cuz you agree with things like that.
2007-03-22 19:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by fashiongrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this things use to happend je
well keep on trying
2007-03-22 19:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by Talis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes you
but doesn't wanna show it!
2007-03-22 19:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by i tell it how it is! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋