ok so i just found out that this girl witch is kinda my friend like the saem guy as me.(Let me tell you she is a real s**t like 4 or 5 BF this year) How do i get him before her. I have never had a bf before and i really dont wana call him or like ask him out in person. I WILL NOT TELL THE GIRL HOW I FEEL EATHER!!Plz help!! This is my first situation like this!!
2007-03-22 12:26:52 · 8 answers · asked by Dancer24 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, my question is: do you really like him or do you want to show this witchy girl up? Is this going to be a real relationship or just revenge? Remember, if you don't really have feelings for him, then you'll be disappointing this guy in the end.
If you really do like him, get to know him. If you are already friends with him, casually ask him out. If you feel really uncomfortable with asking him out, it might be because you don't really have strong feelings for him. Don't rush love because then it will never be real love at all.
2007-03-22 12:33:57 · answer #1 · answered by love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a situation like this you HAVE to take the initiative (basically that means you have to take charge first). It sounds as though you're probably somewhat young, probably in junior high or highschool, so unfortunately mostly what guys are after at that age are purely looks. Try to look as good as possible, (but definitely not slutty, sluts only attract scumbags) Dress attractively, but appropriately. Next is the most important part. Shyness can be cute, but only to a certain extent. You need to talk to this guy. Get flirtatious, he's never gonna know you like him unless you flirt. If he flirts back, you're half way there, you know he's attracted to you at some level. Keep stepping it up, smile ALOT give lots of eye contact. But smiling is key. (unless you have hideous gangly yellow teeth, then its best to keep ur teeth hidden haha) But I'm sure you have a nice smile with all these dentists now adays, so smile away. Eventually your friend is gonna figure it out. Its best to just confront her about it see how she feels. Hopefully she's not a little immature whining brat who's going yell at you and crap, cuz if she does then she doesn't deserve to be your friend. But anyway good luck with it all. After the flirting stage, tell him you like him, that's the only way anything is gonna happen. (Don't send your friends to do errands for you.. I personally hate that, and so do most other guys) Be confident, that's a major turn on.
2007-03-22 12:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by pyroman162 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're not willing to do anything about it then you cant want to go out with him that much.
just ask him out or at least hang out with him more and talk to him a lot so he knows you like him.
otherwise just let her have him, sounds like she wont keep him for long before she moves on to another one so then after that you can have him and wont have to worry bout her liking him.
2007-03-22 12:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by zimba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell his friend u like him. trust me, this works so well. his friend will tell him, and get him to ask u out. plus, this way his friend will b on ur side, and wont let him go out w/ the other girl until he gives u a chance.
2007-03-22 12:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u should go and talk to him before she does then u should go and get to know him then ask him out.
2007-03-22 12:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out through the COMPUTER!
then it wont be as hard on you as it would if you asked him out
in person
2007-03-22 12:32:16 · answer #6 · answered by i tell it how it is! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not write him a note telling him how u feel
2007-03-22 12:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out first! DONE!
2007-03-22 12:31:18 · answer #8 · answered by littlemissflamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋