Im only 13 but I have ther biggest crush on this boy thats 14. We are both Chrsitian, and I am really shy. I want to kiss him, but im too shy! How can I get him to kiss me? HOW CAN I GET HIM TO NOTICE ME?? I am going to viit his family....and I only have 3 days to win his heart.... what should I do to get him to like me, and if possible, kiss me?? I know i should be myself, but what else should I do to get him to like me? I really really like him.... and i cant stop thinking about him.... its just that im so shy; i dont have the nerve to kiss him, or even touch him!! HELP ME! I NEED TO GET THIS GUY TO LIKE ME IN ONLY 3 DAYS! AGGHH!
2007-03-22 12:24:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awe, okay heres some advice, my friend:
1. if you flirt and he flirts back, then that shows you two are comfortable around eachother. to see if he is interested in you, look to see if his eyes are following down your face to your lips, and if his feet are pointed towards you. (this shows he's attracted)
2. if he DOES show these signs, then make eye contact and try not to be shy. (Dont cross your arms, this shows him that you're unattracted) Just be genuine around him (which is TOUGH, i know)! Before aiming for a kiss, on the first day of this trip, give him a little hug hello! The next day, just have fun conversations with him!
3. If you two have a chance to talk alone, sit close with him and really listen. Look at him, and who knows! a kiss may happen!! And if it does, CONGRATS! But if not, dont beat yourself up. It may happen soon if he shows he likes ya!
I'm glad youre both Christans. Im one as well. This is the foundation for a solid relationship, my friend. Good luck! Ask if you have ANY more questions. :D
2007-03-22 12:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by Katie C. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't just get him to like you, it doesn't work that way. Honestly, if you push a crush, it's not likely it will last. You're still really young, so you shouldn't think of this as a big deal. Sometimes you may even think you're in love with your crush, but trust me, you're not. As for your situation, I think you should just admire him from afar type of thing. Don't push it because the more you want something, the less likely you'll get it. If he likes you, if he wants to kiss you, he'll do it. If you really want to speed up the process, ask him about his feelings for you and maybe in the 3 days you have, you'll be able to determine whether or not he also has a crush on you.
2007-03-22 12:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dress nicely and stuff, make a good impression to his family. Don't kiss him in front of his family, though!! Be sweet and kind and he should like you, but don't get tongue-tied or be shy. Be yourself and be outgoing! Live your life! If he likes you it will happen. And try telling him how you feel.
2007-03-22 12:29:58 · answer #3 · answered by gymnast.girl520 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax a little bit. If he has fun with you around, and you two can talk about things together (even your faith!) then chances are he'll like you. Can't guarantee the kissing part, though... that might take awhile.
2007-03-22 12:29:17 · answer #4 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have the same exact problem...first get to be friends with this guy...get to no him...spend time with him but not so much that he might get sick of u...b urself...get him to like u bac then maybe u'll kiss...but i don think this will happen in 3 days its gonna take time be patient.........if u have ne advice for me please give it
2007-03-22 12:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by confused00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing... slooooow down.. if you are a wreck meeting the parents... the parents wont like you... you are probobly afraid because he probobly already likes you.. and you are dealing with it really wrong.. just relax... be yourself... you dont HAVE to get him to like you... he's got to WANT to like you... so just slow down.. you cant roast a turkey in the microwave..
2007-03-22 12:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by original5thguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the first move. he could be shy too and maybe he likes u. ask him for a milk shake or pizza. GOOD LUCK!!!!! ;-)
2007-03-22 12:29:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first u get to know him, then go in and impress him with ur hair looks and clothes. finally, go in so that u can kiss him.
2007-03-22 12:29:56 · answer #8 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry to burst your bubble, but hun,
its not gonna happen that quickly.
guys aren't really that..pliable, if you will.
wait a couple of years,
they don't really know what theyre doing until theyre 16-ish.
2007-03-22 12:29:50 · answer #9 · answered by emmieface 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well,. girl I don't have a BF but my Godsister has a thousnands boys and crushes so she told me this say" Hi, I am and then your name" and say I like you!
2007-03-22 12:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋