what i mean is how can you tell if the woman you are attracted to is the one. do you feel it or is there really any signs or feelings involve to let you know?
2007-03-22 12:23:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To know who "the one" is--really is about time. Spending time with the person you will know--look for signs like how she treats you, how does she treat other people, what are her goals in life, is she caring and compassionate, are you the most important thing to her, will she do anything for you--no you don't have to like the exact same things, but are you two basically heading in the same direction?? One's true colors eventually come out but not in the begining of a relationship. After some time (and it's different for everyone) then you will know in your heart she is the one. For me, I had NO doubts about my husband after getting to know him. Also, trust your gut instincts as well--they are usually right. Good luck!!
2007-03-22 12:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have spent a great deal of time with her and you know everything about her. When you see her for all of her mistakes and all of her flaws. When no other girl seems important. When you can see yourself getting married and living with her for the rest of your life. When all other girls don't seem as interesting as her. When you are in a store and you see something that reminds you of her. When you not only are going out, but you are best friends and you don't feel like you need to hide anything from her, because you love her completely. When you see any of these signs, she could be the one, but give it time. Love grows slowly, get to know her and really appreciate her.
2007-03-22 19:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no guarantees in anything, but you do need to listen to that gut level instinct that is your common sense. If you have to talk yourself into it, you might reconsider.
Loving the right person doesn't take a lot of work, taking care of that love, now that takes a lot of work.
2007-03-22 19:27:18 · answer #3 · answered by OPTIMIST 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you can know without asking, she's the one and it's real and lasting. It took me a long time to learn that lesson, and many mistakes along the way. The answer is - you'll just know.
2007-03-22 19:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by irrefutabledevotion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to ask when its right you just get the feeling that this is right.
2007-03-22 19:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by ya girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋