can we go back to family?

Question

fell in love with this girl but it didnt work. she was to confuse in her life. I want to continue to have a relationship with her because she was my bestfriend for years, i want to be able to clasify her as my sister but i dont think i can talk to her wih out falling back in love with her unless i develop hatred for her.
we were planinning on going into business together in another year.She knows that i love her but what she dosen't no is there is a part inside of me that hates her (minus the creepy) lol so with this being sed im caught in the middle and its killing me. if i just walk away i fill a great guilt becuase im in love with her greatly and i "know" she loves me and i guess i fill like she needs me and from what i seen she does need help .but im full of resentment and lust towards her honestly befor i make a bad move is this a minor bump to be over looked though she did me so wrong (cheated andfound out she still is hanging out with cheater - the sex i believe it)or letgo

Answer 1

This is what I think: I know that it would be hard to let go, but someday, you are going to have to let go. If it's too hard being friends, then maybe that isnt the best idea. I think that you can find another girl that will treat you right, and that you can love for the rest of your life. It will be hard to forget her, I know it will be, but someday you are going to have to forget her. I truly believe in the saying "Once a cheater always a cheater", and you can find a woman that will be faithful to you no matter what.