Get a shy guys attention and have been trying lately to do so. Because there is a possible friendship or something in him, but he's SOOO shy. And I can't figure out how to make him come out of his shell. What to do?
2007-03-22 12:04:03 · 4 answers · asked by The Random Blonde 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask around to find out what his favorite music or activities are to find out if you have similar interests. You can use those as something to start a conversation. A guy that is shy is going to be more willing to open up if it's about something he has an interest in. Once you open that door it should make it easier.
2007-03-22 12:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one. I have had a crush on a shy girl for three and a half years now and still have not done anything about it. You have to talk to him. I know it will be hard, because it is for me, but you will have to break the ice. Start by asking him hobbies, music interest, family life, etc. Just small talk. Then when you find something in common that should break the ice. Smiling and winking and all that stuff will do nothing, only make him blush and be embarrassed and make it worse. Good luck!
2007-03-22 23:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by Nathan G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him questions that can't be answered by a simple yes or no. Smile at him whenever there is eye contact. Try to socialize with him as much as you can and let him get comfortible around you.
2007-03-22 19:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by iris09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to piss off shy people to break their shell. Or find something he is interested in to talk about.
2007-03-22 19:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mista R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋