should i stay way from him or should i go for him?

Question

ok there is this guy in my skool & his name is Tyler.He is really nice & hott & i have had the biggest crush on him ever since school started.his sister found out he liked me and from there on we called each other pretty much every night & talked for like an hour.last friday he kissed me at a school competion when we were in a car alone.he told me not to tell any1 b/c he already has a gf but he told me he was never gonna break up with her b/c they know too much about eachother but he said she had given him permission to cheat on her.he has asked me if i "wanted 2 do stuff w/ him" and off course i said yes.we play footies under the table @ skool and he rubs my leg w/ his hand & 1 time his sister saw us playin footies & she asked him and he said he wasn't but i was.he tells me he loves me on the phone and when his sis asks' him if he likes me he says i make him sick! i dont understand if he is trying to lie so his sis wont tell his gf or if he truly doesn't like me.wut should i do?

Answer 1

okay, I gotta ask you one question. Do u think this is okay? Do u really believe that she had given him PERMISSION to cheat? I think this guy, no matter how nice, is scum. If he's not willing to break up with his girlfriend for you, then I don't think it's okay to keep doing what you're doing. If he won't break up with his girlfriend it means one of two things...one he is greedy and likes having more than one girl, or two he's really in like/love with this girl so obviously you don't mean ALL that much to him...at least not as much as that other girl. Okay, I'm rambling on and on, but basicallly, what you're doing is wrong. If you guys like each other that much, either he needs to break up with that girl or you two will just have to wait. I don't care if she did give him 'permission' to cheat, it's still a pretty shitty thing to do... You're better than that, I know

I understand you like him, and this is a lot easier said than done, but you should try to forget about him, or at least wait till he's AVAILABLE! C'mon don't be like that....think about this, even if he breaks up with that girl and gets with you, what if he does this with another girl while he dates you? C'mon you're deserve a guys total and complete attention, and NO LIES!

Answer 2

i think this is just asking for trouble. someones heart is gona get broken, either yours or ty's girlfriend's. and if it's your's your further away from where you started, if it's hers, you'l have gotten lucky.

oh well, but here's my motto '' go for broke!!!!''