We met 2 yrs back, 1st yr was lovely, he loved me, pampared me, bought me gifts, I was his girl of dreams. after a yr v started fighting, it was regarding this other girl who flirted with him, he thought I was over reacting. we fought day n night for 5 months & he broke up with me at the end of it. He had an affair with her for a month & it didn't work for them. He came back to me, I forgave him, but now he says he came back to me because he felt sad for me. He says he wants to feel the passion for me but he is not able to. please tell me what I can do to help our relationship. I have seen him love me before, how can he loose the passion which was once there!
2007-03-22 12:02:38 · 5 answers · asked by hussask 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. You really need to leave this guy, there is no future here....
2007-03-22 12:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I hate answering questions like because it hurts me to tell you the truth.
Alot of times, when couples break up during a rough patch, they try to give it another go. however, I usually advise people against this because once you lose the want to be with somebody it will never come back. Most people don't get a second try, unless they try to stick through whatever is hurting the relationship.
he will never feel that passion again, because the thought of losing you forever is gone. That is what holds people's passion in place. the thought that if they don't hold onto you - you will disappear. if he already let you go once, AND still managed to come back to you then there is no fear. There is no risk. Therefore there is no passion.
Its your turn to walk away hun, and do it before he does it to you again. In the end, he will respect you for it.
2007-03-22 12:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by axe happy juggalo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships take work, and it sounds like he's not willing to put in that effort, after a year the hunnymoon stage is over. if you love somone you work at it, it can stay perfect everyday! if he is willing to try the passion will come back in a few months and you two will be stronger.
2007-03-22 12:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by Lovley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say f*ck him...he came back to you out of pity ...not because he loved you... there are plenty of other good guys who are willing to love
2007-03-22 12:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by n1cyndy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your part to show how much you love him. Then from there see how he responds.
2007-03-22 12:09:49 · answer #5 · answered by Mista R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋