Hi recently i met a man of my dreams. He is the best looking men i ever met, everybody who sees him agrees he is 20 out of 10. Model agents stop him on the street.He also happens to be a harvard graduate with a great job offers from top banks, great in sex, and really sweet person. I am a pretty girl myself, but not beautiful, and i am 5 years older ( i am 27). However recently i started to realise i feel awfully insecure around him, i feel he is just so much better and superiour to me in so many respects...I get very insecure seeing how women throw themselves on him, and i feel insecure seing how bright and successful he is whilst my career never took off and i wound up going back to postgraduate study..I feel stupid, not attractive, not good enough for him... he makes me feel great, he loves me i think, but i still feel insecure and scared he will be taken away by some gorgeous girl...Any advice what should i do?
2007-03-22 10:53:50 · 7 answers · asked by Rita B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously he sees good things in you as well. The feelings about the insecurity though... I wouldn't worry about it. You need to trust him if you love him.
2007-03-22 11:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by mike 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and he loves you, don't feel insecure! he obviously loves you a lot more than these "gorgeous" girls. I'm sure ur not so bad urslelf! Though you may not think so, I'm sure you have great qualities that he does not possess. If you enjoy being with him and trust him, then you can overlook your insecurities. Whenever you think he's too good for you, think about what he'd say, probably that you're too good for him and that he loves you!
2007-03-22 18:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by sunshiney 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When your lying by one another at night whisper it to him. How much you like him and care about him, and how you dont want to lose what you have going for the both of you. And If you feel comforable say whats on your mind...tell him those things that you stated above. When you are close, and alone, and the moments right, its not a bad thing to just talk about your feelings. It will clear a lot of things up, I swear!
Good luck! And Congrats.
2007-03-22 18:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by Kyle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the surest way to lose him is to be insecure, also dont think he is looking for marraige he is very young, so my good advice is cool it, be happy, be nice, be pleasant, age is nothing, you are young too. obviously you are some one he likes, probably more interesting than the younger brainless girls he sees. remember some guys at 20 lose it by age 30, so don't drool too much, and don't have sex.
2007-03-22 18:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember that there are some reason of why he is with you,
maybe you make him feel special, o maybe you make him feels secure, but remember, that you don´t have to be afraid to show him how are you feeling, let´s talk to him and see what happens.
2007-03-22 18:02:45 · answer #5 · answered by motor 24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself lucky. This is all your imagination. Why can't he love you for just being the way you are? Just be happy!!
2007-03-22 17:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u know what they say "u cant keep a good thing all to yourself"so if u really wan tot keep this one u have to be very furious
2007-03-23 03:08:12 · answer #7 · answered by combs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋