2007-03-22 10:45:12 · 8 answers · asked by mohsen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Ask her
2007-03-22 10:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by Always Hopeful 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say talk about it but if you really don't want to bring it up take the lead, but go slowly especially if it's a first for y'all. softly start kissing her and tell her u love her. lead her to the bed room and keep kissing her and hold her and move her close to you. If things are going well go sit on the bed and just look longing at her. If she's ready she'll come to you and you can take it from there. If she's not she'll hesistate and you can stand back up and go to her. Move behind her and hug her with your arms around her waist. Lean over and put your head on her shoulder and ask her if she's ok, what's wrong. And listen to what she's telling you. That conversation should open things up with the two of you. Good Luck, I wish you both all the best and a great and excellent time.
2007-03-22 19:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by bonnieblue716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the time and ask her one evening when you're sitting together, with your arms around each other. You may want to ask her what pleases her, or what she would like you to do to her, in what way, what position, etc. And let her know what pleases you too. When you're in bed together, have some foreplay, the intimate act itself, and hold her afterward in your arms. Kissing her, and caressing her are also good. Make sure you satisfy her first, and do what she wants you to do to her. Sweet, verbal words, saying I love you, complimenting her and praising her are also music to her ears.
2007-03-26 02:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure she doesn't expect anything beyond intimacy. All I can say is if you are concerned, discuss the issue with your wife. If you have a good solid relationship, discussing sex should not be an issue.
2007-03-22 17:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by Rebekah B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out on a limb and have a nice conversation about it. I can almost guarantee you your wife will want soft kisses, caresses, and slow foreplay. Don't be in a rush. You can't learn anything in a rush.
2007-03-22 17:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about it with her before you two have sex. Ask her if you are doing her right, and if she would like for you to do anything else to please her. Like ask her, if she likes the way you caress her breasts or does she like a certain position over another....etc. Does she like to dress up? Or would she like to give you H**d or would she like for you to go d**n on her.....you know those sort of things.....
2007-03-22 17:54:53 · answer #6 · answered by Tiff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either ask her (ooooh, there's a novel idea!)
or just google her name, and download one of her sxex tapes being passed around on the internet.
2007-03-22 17:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her!
2007-03-22 17:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by mtngrl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋