Well, I am confuse I don't know at all. We had a big fight that I think my bf changed. After our big fight, i concluded that i can't live with out him. It was awesome feeling, but Before our fight he was always mad at me and everytime i have something to tell him, his not interested. He don't open up to me, but now he changed he treat me as his great pal, and tells me almost everything. Is this is natural, to treat your bf/gf as your friend too and be comfortable with her/him, or this is a sign of his not interested with you anymore... Thank you for all of your answers
2007-03-22 10:24:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means, he realized that he values you more than he thought. I'd love to be treated like that!
2007-03-22 11:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from what you told us, he changed for the BEST! He's treating you a lot better, right?
That is a GOOD thing.... It shows that he IS interested in you.
After your fight, he realized the way he's been acting apparently. And he doesn't want to go back to the way he was. He is fixing his problem... because he really likes you.
And it IS natural to treat your bf / gf as your friend too (I've been friends with my bf for a long time before we started dating... so I know what that's like). And being comfortable with that person is GREAT. It shows that you can be exactly who you want to be... YOU... and not have to worry about them leaving you over it.
It seems like he really does care because he changed for you.
2007-03-22 10:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like the big fight you had was the culmination of lots of frustration about your relationship. and so once you told him how you felt and what you needed from him, he naturally started to do it. that is actually the ideal situation for your relationship. i know people think that relationships should be easy, like love blooms the birds chirp, flowers grow and you and your significant other just know what the other person needs and wants and give it to them. well surprise surprise, it doesnt work like that. in reality the only way to get someone to treat you the way you want to be treated is to tell them how to do it and then be consistent about enforcing that expectation. sounds like you didnt do that in the beginning but have done it now. be happy, your relationship is in much better shape.
2007-03-22 10:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by asg_is_chillin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want things to work out in the long run he can't be the only one to change. Maybe if he thinks of you as a pal he thinks you'll trust him more and then he can tell you what about you pisses him off.
2007-03-22 11:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by pointlomasd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont just sit there and be sad, open up to him and speak your mind and if he dosent listen then at least you tried. I know how you feel, you feel like you cant live without him and all but just try to talk to him. BUT if you were the cause of the fight then try to give him some time
2007-03-22 11:30:27 · answer #5 · answered by Jochebed O 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, seems like the fight cured your relationship. There will be more fights, but it seems as if your fight actually worked out idealized. Enjoy the honesty of your new relationship
2007-03-22 10:32:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thatr mean that he doesn't feel the same way that you do once a guy had made up his mind what he want to do and the way he act your gut is the best bet. he's not into you. leave him alone for a while because his mind is thinking should he be with you or not.
2007-03-22 11:22:56 · answer #7 · answered by Ryah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is definitely cool that he can talk to you about anything now!! He is definitely still interested or he wouldn't have changed 4 u!! And since he tells u everything you can trust him not to keep stuff from you!! plus y'all will b able to talk about anything together now!!!
2007-03-22 11:18:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a GENUINE guy! The fight made him see where you both stand!
Good luck in your future!
2007-03-22 10:32:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he realized after that fight he might lose you. So he is being nicer.
2007-03-22 10:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋