Would you ever pursue/date someone (of the opposite sex) that you knew was bisexual?
We can say I have a vested interest in this. I, myself, am fine with it as long as it becomes/stays monogomous between us.
And please, anyone who wants to bash, just don't. Move on to the next Q. Not everyone can be righteous.
2007-03-22
10:16:10
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asked by
randyken
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Family & Relationships
➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it's a matter of assuming they would be/are unfaithful. But face it. As I guy, I get at least a little nervous about her talking to some other guy I think she finds attractive. Now I am twice as nervous. That's all.
2007-03-22
10:24:32 ·
update #1
i have no problem with anyones sexual orientation... :D
2007-03-22 10:19:36
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answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6
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no becuase I would worry that he woudn't be monongomous and would long for that feeling he got from the samesex person. It really isn't any different from a guy who says he likes to have two women in his life, but he will try and be just with you. Hon, it an't gonna happen.
I am not making a moral statement. Just saying that if you knew the end of the stick was onfire. Why hang on to it. you might get burned. Pick a stick that isn't on fire.
LOL silly anology there....but that is what came to my mind
Why play with something possible explosive. Why take the risk. And that risk is totally up to you. I can talk until I am blue in the face and you will do what you want to do on your terms.
It really doesn't matter what any of us say here.
2007-03-22 17:22:56
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answered by clcalifornia 7
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If you are fine with it and it stays in the person's past as long as the two of you are together, then there is no issue. It shouldn't matter what other people say if you want to care for and love this person. The relationship is you and the other person, not your family, friends, and those answering the question on here. We only live once, be happy!
2007-03-22 17:24:27
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answered by Baby Me 2
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Im a guy...and I wouldnt mind dating a bi-sexual girl. It really shouldn't matter if you make it clear that you just want a monogomous relationship. If she's out hooking up with other girls, then that counts as cheating just the same as it would be if she was out cheating with another guy (although it would be kinda hot :) ).
2007-03-22 17:21:32
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answered by J H 1
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If they are bi - than what's the problem? As you said, as long as it monogomous, fine. If they are gay and you are not, don't try to change them - it doesn't work. Go for it!
2007-03-22 17:21:11
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answered by mel m 4
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Not sure, maybe casually date nothing serious, however I would be constantly worried that he may be checking out guys and girls....us females know how to act and "compete" so to speak with another woman for our mans attention....but what would you do if he were checking out a guy??
2007-03-22 17:21:31
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answered by Anonymous
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i wouldn't take the chance because it is hard to keep a bisexual from looking or checking other chicks out even if she is in a relationship.
2007-03-22 17:21:02
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answered by ivelisse 5
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I would simply because I'd respect the person for being open enough to let me know he/she was bisexual.
2007-03-22 17:20:06
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answered by freakntn 2
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I would not - too many possible opportunities to be tempted to cheat.
2007-03-22 17:20:17
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answered by lunasage 6
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if she was a good looking bi girl
i wouldn't mind being her best friend
2007-03-22 17:19:44
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answered by bill 2
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why do everyone assume bi people are unfaithful?
2007-03-22 17:21:36
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answered by loveless_sselevol 3
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