My mom doesn't know that I've had sex, but I want to be safe yet I know if i tell her she wont let me she my boyfriend.....I want to be honest with her but i don't know what to do
2007-03-22 10:10:37 · 10 answers · asked by raverx4xlifee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to realize that having sex before you're married is wrong. And maybe this will stop you from continuing on with your sex sprees.
2007-03-22 10:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please make sure you are using some form of birth control until you reach a decision to talk to your mom about this. Go to a local free clinic, get examined and they can give you birth control pills. Talk to your mom, just be as honest and open with her as you can. She may be hurt at first but she'll want to make sure you are safe in the meantime.
Please use a condom, even if you are on the pill, to help prevent the spread of STD's.
2007-03-22 19:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by hr4me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way would be to be honest and just sit her down an explain the situation. If you think she will over react you could try your local family planning clinic which should offer birth control for low or no cost.
2007-03-22 17:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by Mz. Keisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her and your right about wanting to be safe. If you were my daughter I would want to know. As a mother I know I would want my daughter to come to me and as a mom we know our children will have sex and we'd much rather them be safe then to not be. Just tell your mom. If your going to have sex there isn't anything she can really do cause your going to do it anyways right? Honesty all the way!!!!!
2007-03-22 17:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by jojo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is much easier to sit and talk with you mother now about getting birth control then it will be if you have to sit down and tell her your pregnant. I don't know how old you are BUT I do hope you both are using condoms for safer sex against STD's and pregnancy.
2007-03-22 17:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by Patty G 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask your mom about birth control. And when she ask you why? Just say that you are asking for your best friend. Why? She is too scared what her mom will said. And you just like to help her very much. If your mom will tell you than just save informations in your memory.
P.S. : Dont forget what would you tell your mom if she asks you if you tell your friend.
2007-03-22 17:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by S c a l p e r 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be honest, and tell her, yeah she will be upset but she also has some good advice and the name of a good gyn. Which is the best place to start if you don't tell her, it take a doc. for the right stuff.
2007-03-26 16:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by wiggliy66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you they won`t give bc to 15 and under
2007-03-22 17:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by livingexperience 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
buy it yourself, plus, its your choice. she cant tell you when to have sex
2007-03-22 17:23:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her
2007-03-22 17:34:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋