Ok. Well there's this guy at my old school [i recently moved] who i've liked for a looong time. Let's call him L. We were really good friends and we always goofed off in study hall together, just me and him. And we always hung out at the skating rink.
Everyone told me he liked me...but I don't see how he could.During this year he's gone out w/ all of my best friends, and i'm serious they're GORGEOUS! He flirts with everyone. I think he only sees me as a friend. I really like him and want to tell him so bad, but i know that doesn't always turn out so well.
He also will make rude comments towards me sometimes. All of my friends were signing his planner and when i went up to he was like 'This is for only popular, pretty girls.'
Now that i've moved we don't talk anymore. We both have yahoo! but he's hardly ever on and when he is he sometimes talks about liking other girls and stuff..I'm so disappointed. I know it's probably puppy-love but i've never felt this way before...Any advice?
2007-03-22 10:08:49 · 10 answers · asked by ThisIsMe♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have one of your friends ask him how he feels about you, that's the simplest thing to do. If he say he is your friend, forgettaboutit, but if he says it a certain way and your friend will hopefully know what way, this will help you move closer to him. If he says he feels nothing for you, you will never be close again and I am sure of it. If he says he really likes you or something like that then he will eventually ask you out. What I think is going between you two is that he treats you like one of his guy friends, he trusts you, but if you try to be his girl, then he will not treat you the same way. You should act like you are a guy around him and he will apprieciate that. I highly doubt that a love relationship will go far, but it's possible.
2007-03-22 11:25:13 · answer #1 · answered by jokesalot13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be looking into your school work and not at that boy they will be time for you to find a boy later on after you have gotten your life together.Honey you are only 13 you should be focusing on going off to college and making the best grades in every class you have and less time on the boys because they will cause to fall in your schooling.
2007-03-22 17:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by heavenlli_61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. It was mean that he said you were not pretty. Especially to your face. It's ok to keep in touch, but try not to like him anymore. He was your friend (but a mean one if he called you ugly) but since you guys don't talk, just give up on you trying to be his gf. That's not a true friend, so since you moved, you should also move on.
~~~Good Luck!~~~
2007-03-22 17:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anniechalada 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally... 13 isnt the age to be involved with these things BUT
if u really like him alot then try to get his aim/msn ID and try to flirt up n stuffs. im sure he was only being sarcastic since nobodys that mean... if u like him then he cant be that mean so yeah. if he really meant "this is for only popular, pretty girls" then hes not the one... becuz if he really meant that then thats fkin rude
best of luck girl!
2007-03-22 17:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by tonynguyen244 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like this guy doesnt have any interest in you. Here's an advice , dont be so desperate , if you do , your just making things worst. act calm , make little communication , and let him message you instead, he will come back as an even better person if you do this, but if u keep sending him mesages and are trying too hard to get him back , you are only bringing him furthur away.You have to act confident not clingy and desperate , otherwise your making him proud and he will enjoy watching your emotions fall apart. like i said , play hard to get not desperate otherwise your scaring him away.
2007-03-22 17:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by california_ck 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well the only thing i would like to tell is that ur life has just started u must nor get depressed just for one guy go on with ur life n chill n rock n roll with ur life !
For sure in ur life u ll come across many more guys !
Dont be confused just ENJOY ur life !
GOOD LUCK !
2007-03-22 17:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by C@t 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how that goes.....well it does'nt exactly mean that it could turn out hat bad considering that u don't go2the same school..A lot of people tell me that when a guys mean to you he actually is afraid to show how he feels about u...
2007-03-22 17:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by Baby girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let it go! Try to meet other people at your new school! He sounds like he is too full of himself to really care about anyone.
2007-03-22 17:16:21 · answer #8 · answered by fatbrat64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive had this happen to me befor to. so to me it sounds like he only saw you as a friend not anything more. but i still think you should tell him how you feel becuase if you never do then you will probably reget it because maybe he does like you more then a friend but is scared himself to tell you.
2007-03-22 18:23:21 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he does but there is a chance he does not but my ex made fun of me then randomly told me he liked me and i could of swore he hated me or he could just be really really mean and you should not date a guy that is just plain mean!
2007-03-22 18:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋