I've had a crush on my best friends older brother (we're family friends) he's two years older than me and ive known him my whole life i've liked him for 4-5 years but i rarely talk to him cuz i get too shy i dont think he likes me back but the problem is how do i get rid of this crush? i know nothings going to happen given our family values etc. but how can i shake off this crush thanks!
2007-03-22 09:48:11 · 13 answers · asked by Nicole 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try to become his friend so if you ever think about kissing him it might seen like kissing ur brother, then try to get more intrested in guys ur age
2007-03-22 09:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by Molly J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A crush can last decades. The easiest way to get rid of a crush is to focus your attention on somebody else. Try to convince yourself that this person is not right for you because of age difference, personality difference, or just because he lacks the interest that you have for him. You do not want to be with someone that is not really into you, even if he is the greatest guy in the world.
Be more active and meet different boys. I am sure you will find someone that is definitely worth your attention and focus.
Good Luck!
2007-03-22 16:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have once had a crush for about 3 years so i know how you feel! I stopped liking the guy coz he moved to a different school. Just look at other guys and try not to think about your crush.
2007-03-22 16:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if you can really shake off a crush
but think about all his bad qualities
and maybe you'll stop liking him
I doubt it will work though
a crush is a crush, and you can't get rid of it
2007-03-22 16:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by Into The Sunset 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoever said a crush can last a lifetime or forever... now that is one pile of BS.
a crush might last months, or even years, but NO IT WON'T LAST A LIFETIME.
a crush is too shallow to last.
A crush is about who you think that person is not about who that person really is.
A crush has to do with a lot of hormones in your body... when those hormones subside (sometime between 20-30 yrs old) you will find it much harder to be attracted to people.
2007-03-22 16:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say mostly just by not being around him.. Though if you're still around him, you will probably wake up one day to find out that you don't like him. Try to concentrate on his yucky imperfections.
2007-03-22 16:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by regina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem, im still only just getting over him, i just told myself all the bad aspects he had and tried to put myself off him nad move on, it took a long time but i was determined to get over him, its so hard, i told my best friends about it and they got me through it..good luck!
2007-03-22 16:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well try talking to him... just as friends and go from there
Hope that helps =]
2007-03-22 16:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by Cody M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU KNOW I REALLY START TO ASK MYSELF THE SAME THING SOMETIMES. IVE LIKED THIS GUY NAMED STETSON FOR 3 YEARS AND YOU THINK I WOULD STOP LKING HHIM BUT NO. SO I DON'T KNOW I PUT IT THIS WAY IF GOD HASN'T STOP MAKING YOU LOVE THAT PERSON THEN SOMETHING MUST BE HAPPENING.
2007-03-22 16:53:26 · answer #9 · answered by southern_belle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forever! But with time you usually grow into a more mature place with the relationship and it isn't so uncomfortable.
2007-03-22 16:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋