what should i do because he spending more time with my friend more then he do with me .
2007-03-22 09:47:51 · 24 answers · asked by JELICIA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you guys are in a committed relationship and he's already spending time alone with another girl, that's a problem. i think you should probably ask him about it, and her too. if it turns out they are sneaking behind your back get rid of both of them. anyone who lies and deceives is not boyfriend or friend material
2007-03-22 09:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by Ababe7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't tolerate that level of disrespect from your boyfriend or girlfriend. If he's spending time with your girlfriend, then I think it's safe to assume that he's cheating on you. Otherwise, you would be included in the time they spend together. So hang onto your self-respect and make a plan to get out of this situation as soon as possible. There's no purpose to be served in trying to talk it through with either of them. Sorry for the mess--sounds like you're devastated.
2007-03-22 09:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it's REALLY hard..but depending on how old u are, i think u should confront him.
if u do'nt trust ur boyfriend, ther'es no point in being with him. ask both ur friend and him separately why they are spending so much time w/ each other. try to get to the bottom of it. tell them both that it'd mean a Lot to you if they stopped spending so much time together cuz it makes u sad and uncomfortable. if they deny or get upset at you, then that means they are not Validating your feelings and therefore u may be better off w/o either of them.
good luck
2007-03-22 09:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by tarmee2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this person was really your friend than they wouldn't be spending time with your guy without you being there. So...ask yourself this...why do you want to be with someone who doesn't value you? Who would rather spend time with anyone but you? If you confront one or both of them they might just deny it and make you feel like you're some lunatic who imagines things.Trust your instincts. If it walks like a duck, talks like a duck and sounds like a duck...it is a duck.
2007-03-22 09:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by mhchicetawn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is spending more time with her than u, it usually means he is cheating. i would confront him about this, find out for sure. usually when this happens its best to move on, and accept it, hard to do i know, but always the best thing. there is not a thing u can do about it really, because the more u try to stop it the more he will move toward her.
2007-03-22 09:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him. Usually, your gut instinct is right. Tell him you do not want to be with someone who is seeing someone else and you deserve the respect to be told if he is seeing your friend. Tell him what you expect in a relationship and tell him how you are feeling. If he isn't seeing her, then he should respect you and stop spending time with your friend unless it is with you too as she is your friend.
I would also speak to your friend and tell your friend that you are not comfortable with your boyfriend spending time with her and you suspect they are seeing each other. Tell her you expect true friends to be more respectful to one another and if she is having feelings for your boyfriend that she needs to stop seeing him and to stay away from him. If she were you, she wouldn't want it any other way and friends do not do that to one another.
Honesty and communication are important in every relationship. Hugs to you and I will pray for strength and courage to you when you speak to them.
2007-03-22 09:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your foot down, your friend shouldn't be hanging out with him alone without you there anyways. When you get older this is a big no no for friends to do so don't let this go on
2007-03-22 09:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not your husband and you already think he's cheating on you. Don't waste your time. Dump him and find someone that is wholly trustworthy. Either that...or you're suffering from severe paranoia and if you keep on it will become a self-fulfilled prophesy. Good luck!
2007-03-22 09:50:52 · answer #8 · answered by Scadle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on...our gutt fealing is always right...
Never doubt your instinct.
We have it for a reason.
I had a feeling my boyfriend was cheating on me, and then all of a sudden he broke up with me...how convinient. =S
Jerk!
You also need to loose you're friend.
This happend to me 5 years ago with my ex best friend.
TRATOR!!!
2007-03-22 09:52:24 · answer #9 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your friend about it, then invite your bf to do something, and he cant always turn you down, so then he is spending time with you. and if he is cheating, there's no point in getting mad because if he doesnt like you, why would you want him to be your bf?
2007-03-22 09:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋