He went from being a total sweetheart and gentleman to being rude, getting irrataed quickly, and jumpy. What can I do?
2007-03-22 09:46:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Military
maybe.
2007-03-22 11:22:24 · answer #1 · answered by georgewallace78 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nancy STFU and stop opening so many accounts.
Your just trying to say the same BS about how everyone in the military is terrible.
If this is a serious situation than its mainly because hes been ina war and that can cahnge a man, he becomes aware of the coldness of the world and it hardens him to a certain extent and when hes in his bed with you ina calm room that smells nice and there is no gunfire he doesnt feel right, he needs to be back in the mud is how he feels. Its normal and if he isnt being deployed anymore it will go away with time.
2007-03-22 16:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
has he been deoplyed ot to a war zone/ if so he has ptsd or post traumatic stress disorder. seek help now. contact the va where thelist may be long. then go to www.nichcy.org and seek mental health see mental health for youstate on the site.
god bless and good luck. my son is a soldier too. you are not alone. i am posting the name of a support group on msn called those you defend. pls come join and seek help. we have lots good resources for everyone in the mil and their loved ones.
2007-03-22 17:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by ccc 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Has he been deployed? High stress situations can contribute. I know it was rough wafter I returned from Iraq, most guys would agree (and wives) You have to learn to let your guard down a bit and release anxiety.
I would look into marriage counseling as recommended above.
2007-03-22 16:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I sure hope you are not 19.
What career phase is he in?
allow email I'm an old vet navy wife ,we can talk.
the guys go though predictable phases especially before and after deployment. ( We love you all,but it is so true! So no whining!)
Try your best not to be needy before they deploy.They need to know you are tough enough to make it when they are gone.
2007-03-22 18:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by FOA 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
could be stress at work, if he has been deployed then that also may have a lot to do with it. I suggest some counseling for him and you and that might help. good luck!
2007-03-22 21:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk with him, find out whats bothering him, ask him to see the chaplain, and go to the chaplain yourself, he will get you all the help you need
2007-03-22 18:22:22 · answer #7 · answered by sofmatty 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Marriage counseling. And he needs counseling too. Maybe he regrets his decision.
2007-03-22 16:49:59 · answer #8 · answered by Year of the Monkey 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
WAS HE IN COMBAT AND HOW OLD WAS HE WHEN YOU FIRST MET HIM.
2007-03-22 17:09:08 · answer #9 · answered by rhett_madison 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋