today my mom told me to do my chores and i told her no that was a girls job and for girls only, im a man a shouldn't have to do them, well she told me yesterday if i didn't have my chores done by the end of the night then i would be doing chores for the next week wearing a girls little maid uniform, etc, she said i will see what its like to have to cater to men and everyone else, i thought she wasnt ******* around, so i didnt do them, well today she actually brought home a short frilly maids uniform with panties and legging and everything, she told me i will wear it and do chores in it, for the next two weeks, and if anytime i give her lip she will lift my skirt and spank me, im too old for this, shes a women she should be doing the chores not me, u think this is really fair? im going to look like a girl, what do i do? obey her?
2007-03-22 09:42:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
My suggestion???
YOU SHOULD HAVE OBEYED MAMA THE FIRST TIME!
It surprises me the way you talk about women and "women's work". I was honestly shocked at your comments. Wear the maids uniform, do your chores like you should of done when she first asked you to and DON'T give her ANY lip!!! Sounds like this is simply a case of "What mom says, mom MEANS!" If you DO "give her lip" then you deserve to have a spanking! She is plainly telling you what she expects of you and what punishment you will receive for not doing what you are told. You should allready know that she is serious because she has actually brought home your girly uniform. I'm so sorry that I am finding so much humor and pleasure in your punishment but I think your mother is just giving you something old fashioned that you don't see very much anymore and that my dear son is called TOUGH LOVE! Suck it up, do your chores, respect your mother and all other women in your life, and in the end love your mother for teaching you what in a few years you will be thanking her for.
And to your mom: Go mom! Go mom! I'm rooting for you. Stand your ground and teach your son that you mean what you say and say what you mean.
2007-03-22 15:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Punishment or not, you really need to work on your attitude. Chores are chores and we all have to do them. It sounds like she expected you to pitch in and when you didn't, she asked nicely. You still didn't cooperate so just take the punishment. You want to claim to be a man? A man would take responsibility for his actions. She said she'd put you in a skirt, you ignored her, and that's that.
Make a game of it. Play along with her and get the chores done. If you appear to have learned your lesson, maybe she'll stop before the two weeks are up. She's probably serious about the spanking though, so if you don't want to end up over her knee, watch yourself... and hope she doesn't have a hairbrush!
2007-03-23 07:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by LW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a punk kid. Trust me, that attitude is more annoying than you think. Doing chores is not a girl's job. My boyfriend lives with me and helps around the house a lot. Unless you want a girlfriend who doesn't mind also being your mommy, you are going to end up alone....with your mom
2007-03-22 09:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by Myra G 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What kind of sick sh*t is that!? I don't agree with that kind of punishment at all. I take it you are not an adult yet and if that is the case then I would suggest doing what your mom tells you. If you are over the age of 18 and live under her roof then I would still suggest you do what she says or move out. Who taught you that mindset-that house work is a womans job? Who ever did needs their *** kicked up onto their shoulders. In todays society every one has to pull their weight-equally. Personally I would have whupped you along time ago for thinking that way-and for not doing what you were told.
2007-03-22 10:14:39 · answer #4 · answered by HiTekRednek 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 08:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by clawson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well i dont think u should ware the out fit but since u live in her house u should be doing ur chores... all male teens and kids have to do chores at there house.... btw im 14 and also a guy. i no what im talking about........ and ya. so like she cant really MAKE u wear the maid outfit so just do them in ur regular clothing
2007-03-22 09:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Do your chores and don't give her lip I mean come on, your mom gets to clean up after you all day when you sit behind your xbox. Act normal and do your share.
2007-03-22 10:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by skipper.2666 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I kind of agree with you about girls should be taught to care for the house. The boys should at least offer to help at times. However being dressed in girl clothing is stupid. That's going to far. Don't give her any lip and just do what she says. And be nice to your mother. Remember she brought you into this world and she can take you out real fast.
2007-03-22 11:35:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should have obeyed her to begin with. You sound like a chauvenistic spoiled brat.
There is no such thing as "girl's jobs" and "boy's jobs". Get over it.
2007-03-22 12:09:58 · answer #9 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
real "MEN" do just as much around the house as women. Seriously grow up and quit being a pig
2007-03-22 10:21:24 · answer #10 · answered by Ash 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋