What if two people were in love at the time, but things happened and they both agreed that they didnt want to break up but it was to late, because of other situations beyond their control and so they split, with out closure what do you think that they should do? or what do you think will happen between these two people?
2007-03-22 09:41:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
many things could happen
u could work things out
or move on
u might bump into each other in the future and rekindle that old flame
or u meet other people and be happy
2007-03-22 09:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...I have first hand experience with this one really. It just happened to me five months ago seriously. Try not to fret too much about something you reasonably have no control over...ok? Weird stuff happens to people with mental disturbances sometimes and occasionally. Most of the time one person has mental difficulties contained within the relationship stuff,...and is too embarrassed to say anything to the other person! Anxiety may possibly be one of the issues...but there may be more syndromes lurking in the corners here too. OCD is one thing that comes to my mind anyways. I think my former suffers heavily from this kind of mental difficulty otherwise. She sent me packing twice already...both times for no identifiable reasons as well. She made me feel bad for asking her for some closure too. I'm thinking she's just simply a crazy b-tch! Now I reasonably feel bad for her certainly...but then I'm not gonna be her next victim of her nonsense here either. I'm simply gonna be the ex...and the ex I shall be...period. Need I say more?
2007-03-22 10:01:35 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
closure is so very important, trust me. You think you can, but won't be able to move on until you do. There will always be that "what if" and overall, you won't be able to give yourself fully to the next person and that's not fair to you, them, or the person you need to have closure with. Good luck
2007-03-22 09:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what both people want. I just broke up with my ex and well we left it at we broke up, we're not good toghether and so on...
I don't need closure and he doens't either. It depends on how it ended for the couple.
With my ex of 5 years "my first love" I did need closure...it was more for me though, not for him. He moved on way before I did... =)
2007-03-22 09:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they will tend to have problems leading them in more relationships that may end up like the last until they end up giving up on everything or until they learn to forgive and to trust once more
2007-03-22 09:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by kd212007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your life, tell the ex goodbye ...good luck... blah blah blah and life your life well.
2007-03-22 09:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋