i just dont know?

Question

for the past few weeks ive learnt alot about my friends and myself. but my one so called "m8" always brings me down to make herself feel better, yeah i know thats not a real friend. but she filrts so much with the guys i like so they like her. and well one of my mates is so plastic...to plastic for her own good.
i jave so many m8s its just good knows what to do.
they've booked to go to reading festevail with out me im well gutted.... they always leave me out. but the one girl that i dnt get on with very well...well she stole the boy im in love with, i told her secreats of which me and him shared ...but only because i needed her opinon on things, but she went and told him but made things up as well as...and now he hates me.
and she also embarsses me when im by him on perpose i tell her to stop but she does'nt listen, what shall i do????
help thanks xxx

Answer 1

Brydie,

sounds like you are in a group of friends who are only out for themselves - I presume you are late teens or in you twenties - this is normal at that age especially girls being jealous and competitive towards one another.

Don't let people use control and manipulation over you or put you down - also, I know you will probably not like this one but if you drink alcohol try not to get really drunk when you're out as you need to keep your wits about you around this lot - look after yourself.

You are i a good position as you realise what these people are like so you can be on your guard.

I was blessed with good looks and went to an all girls school - the other girls made my life hell, especially my so-called best friend who was jealous of me. In the end honey I just ended the relationship and have never looked back.

Sometimes you just need to find yourself a new buch of friends. The best people you can trust I have found are from my church - they never let you down in that way.

God bless,

Sophia

Answer 2

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Answer 3

well true friends don't go ahead and do what ur Friends are doing to u. Friends should always stand by Ur side and respect u.and they don't go chasing after guys u like. They should be trying to help u get those guys that u like. U should probably make new friends and those that won't treat u like crap. Good luck. if u can manage a simple hello to your crushes then it shouldn't be hard to pick a conversation

Answer 4

first of all im so sorry you have to go through this. because i know exactly how it feels and it's disgusting that "friends" have to do things like this because they are so boy obssessed.

> My advice is to always to say at least "hello" and smile sweetly when your crushes are around u to let them no your there sorta thing.
>this will open you two up to further possible conversation.

one thing 2 do is to humiliate those bitches in front of there crushes like little things like "u have a bogey hangin from ur nose" you need to get more laid back but confident about things and dnt breakdown in front of these bitches.
if you have like a boy mate talk to him about ur problem becuz boy mates aint bitches and they tell things so straightly!

but the bottom line is ur mate is using u as a target for attention like when u said "i told her secreats of which me and him shared ...but only because i needed her opinon on things, but she went and told him but made things up as well as...and now he hates me"
she is using this to make herself look good in front of him because u are competition to her and by doing this she is turning him off u. u reeeally could do with explaining the situatuation with him about these lies.

i strongly advise to make new friends and maintain 1 best friend but sometimes it may be better to just have aquaintences.

the sooner u get away from these bitches the better and it may not feel like it at first but try gettin more boy mates and hangin round a mixed group of friends (girls and boys). those boy mates cud be connected to ur crushes and u could use this.

i had this EXACT thing happen to me in year 9 and it really hurt me and i hope you get through this, good luck and EMAIL MEEEE IF YOU WANNA TALK IM HERE!! xxxxxxx love sophia

Answer 5

I know it's hard because of school and popular and friends and what not. Nobody wants to be the talk of the school. Know this...if you tell them or her something...you might be the talk of the town...they might talk bad about you...and so on...you know Gossip!!! Unfortunately I thought after high school gossiping goes away but it doesn't. If you don't care what people say or think about you, then I say tell her how you feel. If you care and want to be part of the "crowd"...then just sit tight and enjoy the ride.
You're choice.
Good luck!

Answer 6

Be a leader and leave those girls alone your nobodies intertainment. The longer you stay the more they bring you down its not worth your integrity. Its going to be hard but it is well worth it in the end

Answer 7

Sounds like you need a new group of friends. If they always leave you out and treat you badly, they aren't friends.

Answer 8

Get your own ticket for Reading. Remember that secrets are secrets - you don't tell them for ANY reason. Keep smiling, it confuses the hell out of your enemies

Answer 9

That's simple
STOP HANGING AROUND THEM

Bad friends are worse then no friends...plus if you are a smart ,nice, intelligent girl you will find new and better friend

Answer 10

You need to find you new friends, those who are really your friends and will treat you the same.