is sex before marriage okay?

Answer 1

no

Answer 2

Sex is one of the most fought-about subjects in marriage. Just as you should see if your visions of the future match up, and your decisions about money and vacations and who cleans the bathrooms, you also need to make sure your sex lives will be compatible. If you think you can find that out simply by discussing it, then great.

Keep in mind, though, that the person you marry is the one with whom you'll be having sex for the rest of your life, which is a pretty long time. And if you have completely different ideas about sex, isn't it better to know that before you spend a huge pile of money on a wedding so you can get out of the relationship fairly gracefully instead of having to go through a messy divorce?

Answer 3

It depends entirely on religion and personal decisions For example, Christianity doesn't allow sex before marriage. If you as a person think it's morally wrong to have sex before marriage, then it is. You can't just say "yes it is" or "no it's not", you just can't make generalizations like that.

Answer 4

Sleeping around and having lots of partners, one-night stands, casually as playing a game of tennis? No. It's not designed for that. What about any little complications, like pregnancy and disease? Sleeping around is like wearing your party dress to the supermarket - what do you do when you get the prom invitation? Can't get another virginity!

It's not something to be taken lightly, it's a meeting of minds and bodies, a special exchange of fluids, a beautiful thing between people who love each other. In my opinion, they don't have to be married, but they do have to be committed to each other.

The car test-drive analogy is rubbish. If you love someone, fancy them and want to commit to each other, then you will be loving and patient together, you will make the sexual side work, and it will get better and better.

Answer 5

There is nothing wrong with it, some (me included) just prefer to wait and share the experience with just one person, only thinking about them and not lots of other sexual encounters.
And many people who have sex before marriage get hurt..

Answer 6

I think girls are very stupid to have sex before marriage. Traditionally to put it crudely the deal has been - the guy gets sex in return for commitment. Giving him sex for no or little commitment means that he gets what HE wants for nothing

Answer 7

well i guess it depends on the person. I'm a christian so i believe sex should be kept for inside marriage, but if a person doesn't have a problem with it they have a right to live however they want.

Answer 8

I believe that sex should come after marriage.
This is mostly because of my religion, and also because all of the STD's floating around these days. If you know your wife has never had sex (and is faithful) and you have never had sex (and faithful), then you can have sex all the time without fear of std's.
Plus, waiting for it makes it... feel like you have worked harder for it.

Answer 9

Not as good as after you get married,sex before mainly consists of
Those stolen moments never knowing whether you are going to be caught or trying not to make a noise.

Answer 10

it hasnt done me any harm!! i believe that we need to get some experience before marriage, because if your bad in bed on the big night its going to be really disappointing, and you wont have much of a relationship. if it is against your religion, then dont but otherwise enjoy!!!

Answer 11

Of course! It's not just ok, it's bloody brilliant, but it does get better and better after marriage - as the old saying goes practice makes perfect!