Do guys like when girls make the first move? I am very forward, and have no problem being the one to get the ball rolling so to speak. Is this a bad thing, how do I know if I am coming on too strong? I don't want to belittle them or take away their masculenity, but I have no patience for games and such.
2007-03-22 09:36:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i can say that u r a ""go getta girl"" there is nothing wrong with that. keep it popping.
2007-03-22 09:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men love a forward girl when they're dating. It's easy, conveniet and there is no guess work. It's what guys call a sure bet.
This attitude changes when guys are thinking of being serious and wanting to commit. That's when they want to be the persuer and they look for the hard to get girl who hasn't been had by a lot of other guys. It's a universal guy thing.
Always remember forward girls get a lot more dates, but hard to get girls get a lot more proposals.
2007-03-22 16:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by TJTB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey~
Guys in general tend to feel empowered if they make the first move. However, guys who enjoy having a girl make the first move are either very inhibited or self assured on their masculinity.
Be proud and embrace the fact that you are a nonsense-kind-of-girl. This is extremly refreshing for them. Just make sure that you read the signs that they are sending you (whether they are intrigued or annoyed).
Therefore, it is up to you...Do you want to go out with a guy who may feel uncomfortable with you or do you rather go out with a guy that engages in your wonderful personality.
Have fun, and success!
2007-03-22 16:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it when the girls are first ones to make a move or to start a conversation because it takes off a LOT of pressure and we can talk more freely where as if we try to start something a lot of times it come out slow or we stutter or we don't say what we really meant to say.
2007-03-22 16:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by Dave Grohl Wanna Be!!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HaHa....If you have to worry about be-little-ling someone maybe there not your type....YOU are who you ARE.....If your out going and that is the way you approach things and people ...that's absolutley great..I mean really what more can you ask for in a women...A snob who is to shy to say anything due to lack of confidence..............NO!!
If you have no patience don't worry...I mean society is not going to lock you away for eternal life because you need what you need when you need it....There is nothing wrong with it..
Just look at it as TIME WAITS FOR NO MAN....This is my time and there on the delayed side..haha!!
As far as sabatoging another...PLEASE!! If your words or your physical presense can and will effect someone else's ability to be confident...Then YOU don't need them THEY need you to feed off of...DON"T FALL FOR THIS..............
2007-03-22 16:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by Unbreakable Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finally I'm not alone!! YOU GO GIRL!!!
I'm the same way but I've heard this from lot's of guys that they are intimidated by my confidence and assertiveness. It's good but to an extent. Most guys are very traditional and like to chase and play games.
I think it depends on the guy.
2007-03-22 16:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think making the first move isnt a bad thing but just as long as yur not chasing him. say something to get the ball rolling but wait until he says something back.
2007-03-22 16:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes most men feel that its is more of a sure thing & less chance of rejection if the girl makes the first move. go ahead make the first move, if it makes him feel weird them he isnt somebody you want in the first place.
2007-03-22 16:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys LOVE it. It makes the game a hell of a lot easier when the women openly admits "I like men, and I'm looking for one! :D"
2007-03-22 16:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do as you please. Take what you want. If someone has a problem with it, it's their problem, not yours. You can't come on too strong. If someone tells you that, it's because their fragile little egos can't handle it. Let em run back to mommy.
2007-03-22 16:46:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you kidding?!!
the world needs more women such as yourself...
women who take the bull by the horns...
women who put out...
god bless the whores!!!
2007-03-22 16:41:15 · answer #11 · answered by Chris P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋