how can I tell my boyfriend he doesn't put enough effort into the relationship but I do without making him feel bad?????
2007-03-22 09:22:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be honest. Tell him how you feel - but don't be bit*hy about it, ya know? "Babe, i just feel very taken advantage of in this relationship..." Then tell him why. But dont say "you never do this, and you never do that." That makes people defensive. Just tell him that you feel as if you are constantly working on making things better for the two of you and that he isn't -- go from there.
2007-03-22 09:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by beckyvincenzes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you've been together. If you two are extremely close and have been together a while - I suggest you just sit down and tell him exactly how you would tell a best friend. If the relationship is only semi-serious I suggest you tell him the way you would tell a best friend, and if he doesn't act on it - I would dump his *** and find someone who wants to try to make it a lasting good relationship.
2007-03-22 09:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't make him feel bad how will he feel motivated to change and make an effort. just say how you feel and he should understand and if he really cares about you and the relationship he will do what it takes to keep it together
2007-03-22 09:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by melongene_choka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better sloution. Tell him that you would really apprcaited if put more effort into the relatinship. It sounds better and won't frustrate him. Say something like: we should do more thing, go some places, see each ther more often etc
2007-03-22 09:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by EDD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you need more from him to help make things work
let him know that it is a 2 way street and the it takes 2 its a team efferot.
2007-03-22 09:27:16 · answer #5 · answered by heather_honey_2002hs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you feel that he doesn't care for this relationship like you do
2007-03-22 09:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the URL below
2007-03-22 09:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by drorba1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain it to him right after youve screwed his brains out--he willl listen better then good luck
2007-03-22 09:28:33 · answer #8 · answered by imneiflim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him!!! If he doesn't do any better, find a sexier guy!!!
2007-03-22 09:27:42 · answer #9 · answered by Melrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then leave him
2007-03-22 09:29:04 · answer #10 · answered by Green eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋