Ok, this is how it goes:
A few months back I felt a bit abused and excluded in my class, to the point of breaking down in front of everyone in my class on the way to a lesson, in a way that sorted it as people comforted me and now everyone's really nice to me and I get invited to parties and round friend's houses.
I'm worried this will all fade because people just feel sorry for me and what happened, I just feel paranoid and like everything is fake. I just want to be comfortable when I go round to people's houses and enjoy myself instead of fretting, and trying to be funny, nice, genorous and helpful at the same time!
2007-03-22 09:20:57 · 13 answers · asked by Patch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not sure to what degree you where "abused and excluded" (these are strong words)...so I am not sure what to tell you about how they became your friends.
However, if you are enjoying yourself you should not worry about it ending. On the other hand, interact and get a feel of what parties and hang-outs are all about.
If in the end it turns out that they where just making you feel better, you'll end up being the winner anyways. You walk out with a better understanding of yourself and others.
Also, I trust that you may meet at least one person who is worth hang-out with and that person may intrduce you to a whole new and diffrent group of people.
Enjoy yourself and best of success!
2007-03-22 13:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and don't think of what other people may think of you. If they really are being nice to you because they feel sorry for you, then show them that you have a courageous side and you can make friends without making them feel sorry for you.
2007-03-22 16:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by KrazeeBunny93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know exactly, because I'm not in that situation, but even breaking down needs some "courage" and when people show courage, they wins respect.
I think you have already won some true friendships out there. People don't treat others well-for-pity for several months.
2007-03-22 16:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by Tedel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason why u gained friends and get invites isnt important kid its how they make you feel and how you make them feel thats gonna keep u all together,sod the past thats gone although the past showed how kind ur friends are so now just chill and enjoy xxx
2007-03-22 16:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by nendlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe people are not just being nice to they. i think that they did not know how to be around you before. i dont think that they meant to be horrible. take every day as it comes and make the most of it all. if it does all end (and i dont think it would) then at keast you can say you had fun right?????
2007-03-22 16:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by EMMA B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go have a good time,and stay the nice person that you are. Enjoy life.
2007-03-22 16:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by igottadrive2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take it easy,take every day as it comes---your friends would not invite if they did not want you.enjoy it while it lasts. things could be worse.good luck.----
2007-03-22 16:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fake it baby... it's always the best option!
2007-03-22 16:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by Here's Lulu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and let people like you for who you are.
2007-03-22 16:26:01 · answer #9 · answered by looby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself.
xx
2007-03-22 16:24:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋