she went to her friends house and that was 4 months ago....i think that is when it happend......i still love her and i think she still loves me.....but i think she got drunk and had sex when she was there!!! should i just go along with it or what should i do?
2007-03-22 09:19:58 · 21 answers · asked by sexyzack154 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...Find out what sick bastard did this stuff with your special girlfriend..and then go out and double congratulate him on his newly found child support payment plans here too. You're gonna be one lucky fella when your honey buys a boat with the newly acquired inheritance checks here otherwise. Truly though...this ain't really that funny surely. Stuff happens though sometimes unfortunately...it depends on how you look at this stuff anyways. Two future children are at stake here otherwise. Do the right thing and try to stick by this woman if you can. The Daddy is gonna wanna see his children here too partner. Try to let him do it...so long as he keeps sending the checks. I hear condoms work pretty darned good these days...let him know that seriously...at least occasionally anyways!
2007-03-22 09:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were with her when it happened, and you know for sure that those babies aren't yours then I think you shouldn't just go along with it. She cheated on you, and didn't use protection, what if she does it again. Drunk or not, she knew what she was doing. I know you love her, and sometimes its tough to let go of the people we love, but you don't need someone like that in your life. Now if you met her, and she was pregnant, and you knew about it, and her and the guy is nolonger together, sure why not stick by her side in her time of need, If you really care about her. But don't settle for her cheating on you and getting pregnant by another guy, she knew what she was doing, and she thought that she wouldn't get caught, until she ended up pregnant. I'm a woman I know, and if she cheated once, she will do it again. Your obviously a great guy, don't let her use you, you deserve someone who can appreciate you. Think twice about this decision before you just go with the flow, because you might end up with a lot of regrets in the end. I know that you'll be a great father, and love those kids with all your heart, but your obviously having doubts, because she has to be about 5 mos. pregnant right now, and your still confused about what you should do. I know this angers you because you feel betrayed, and you were, so don't settle. She cheated.
2007-03-22 09:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by Jazzy chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What, so that you cheated in your female friend, who became out to be pregnant? Or is it that your female friend was once pregnant and also you made anybody else pregnant too? Either manner, you must commonly speak to her approximately getting an abortion. She would possibly nt love it, however with out a task, twins, and a boyfriend who is cheated on her... Well, it isn't the fine plan for the long run. Why the hell did you cheat her!?! Well you have got performed it already, however consider me, your kissing your self good-bye for your female friend! Now you spot what individuals imply after they say "teenage pregnancies"!!! Tut tut. Well, pass and speak to her earlier than it is too past due to get an abortion! Chop chop!
2016-09-05 12:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by thieme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work things out with her but you should not make her do it alone. Chances are that the babies real dad will be long gone when he finds out. And remember when you raise those kids that any man can be a father but it takes a real man to be a dad!
2007-03-22 17:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ cute by accident ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be with her, then go ahead. But your parents, her parents and the parents of the father all have a right to know the truth about who the father is.
You can keep it a secret from everyone else, if that's what you all decide.
2007-03-22 09:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by limendoz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truely love her, then stay with her. so what if they won't be your biological children. if you raise them then they'll still be YOUR kids. They will call you daddy and to them you will be there daddy. so what if your not by blood. a father is only a father is he acts like one. He's not automatically a father because he helped make them. Do whatever you think you should do. If you love her and want to be with her then stay. if she really loves you then she won't mooch off of you.
2007-03-22 09:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by Arya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me!!! You shouldn't be with her. Thats not good. Thats means she was unprotective with that other person. she can give you a disease if you sleep with her now.
Please be careful! I understand you love her but dont go along with it. She is playing you. Atleast talk to her about this. She knows you aren't the father. Thats selfish of her not even talking to you about it. Please dont get played.
2007-03-22 09:25:47 · answer #7 · answered by scoopie110 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in any case, don't marry her until after they're born. Otherwise you can legally be responsible for them if you are married to her when they are born. Even if they are not yours! Other than that I can't help you. It sounds like she cheated on you. Let her be someone elses problem.
2007-03-22 09:27:07 · answer #8 · answered by Eisbär 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definatly need to do a DNA test when the twins are born.
It would be too stressful fof you to go a lifetime with the twins not really knowing who they belong to.
It is very common to have DNA tests. Please insist on it. Start saving money for it please.
2007-03-22 09:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't just pretend it didn't happen... you need to get it off your chest and talk to her! find out if she really was drunk, even though thats not really an excuse if she loves you... bottom line is: would you really cheat on someone you love
2007-03-22 09:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by dbx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋