i cannot tell if i should be trusting what this guy is telling me. i just recently met him and we have hung out five or six times. and each time he has done something for me that even boyfriends that i had for years hadnt done. he took me out to dinner, he brought me a rose, we watched movies practically all day... however i cant tell if he is being serious when he talks about really liking me and how he is not the player that i have deemed him to be.
i know no one can really say, just trust him, but i was just wondering if anyone had any advice, or personal experience with this sort of thing?...
thanks.
2007-03-22 09:18:56 · 17 answers · asked by Jessica M. here! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My advice to you is go with your gut. If something or someone seems too good to be true, they or it usually is. But my main reason in saying 'go with your gut' is this... I have had feelings about people, in love, and other relationships, and I ignored them and listened to other people and 'just trusted' and got burnt in the long run EVERYTIME.... If something is telling you to not trust him, there is a reason. Women DO have intuition skills, I think, to some degree. If you are still not sure, just take your time. If he keeps doing this stuff and not getting anywhere and still loves your company and keeps treating you good, you're trust and faith in him will grow. Good luck.
2007-03-22 09:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think you should at least give him a chance because there really is some good guy's out there.. I am 20 years old as of yesterday and I have been with my boyfriend since I was 15.. When I found I was having his Baby I thought for sure he was gone because we were young and I had made myself think he was leaving me I waited on it for week's but he never did... So I think you should give him a chance but don't take it to far unless your heart and head is telling you at the same time that your ready.... Good Luck I hope it turn's out well
2007-03-22 16:25:54 · answer #2 · answered by brandy_steves 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My only advice is that there REALLY are good guys out there...not many, but there are. Right now if you don't have any reason to think otherwise...enjoy the moment. See where the time takes you and once things are more serious you will know if he is for real.
2007-03-22 16:22:22 · answer #3 · answered by ljoc421 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In life you have to learn to go with your gut feeling - if in doubt do nowt. Tune into your feelings. Sometimes we just get a feeling, we don't know why or how but this feeling just does not leave. We later find out we were right. Always trust your gut feeling - in my experience it has never failed me rather I have chosen to ignore it and suffered the consequences. When there are consequences sometimes we just have a lesson to learn and we do.
2007-03-22 16:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not so sure I would trust him... sounds sweet but in the end... if you didn't know him before you wont ever know what kind of person he was or really is.. he could be pretending when hes' with you.. some guys will do anything to be with a woman... but they change after a while... becarful dear...
2007-03-22 16:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your gut tells you keep your guard up then keep your guard up until you feel confident enough to let it down. By all means give the guy a chance, but do so with caution. If he breaks your heart, it will mend and at least you had some good times from it. :) good luck
2007-03-22 16:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by 20+ years and still in-love! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice to you is to go with your gut feeling. Women have a keen sense of intuition that we should never ignore.
Take your time and reserve your judgement, however be alert to your feelings. Time will tell, not all of them are jerks and players... you just have to weed them out! :)
Good luck!
2007-03-22 16:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by ivy9toes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is coming from a male. give him a couple of tests before bringing your relationship to the next level. i would say that he might be totally head over heals for you if you have only done a few things together and he is alreaydy doing all of the that stuff for you. but give him a few tests before doing anything to severe
2007-03-22 16:27:02 · answer #8 · answered by station24firefighter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,why shouldnt you trust him? Maybe you've just found a really decent blokes whos really into you and wants to show it? My advice would be give him a chance and see what happens,dont distrust him unless he gives you a reason,and listen to your instincts.Just enjoy it and see what happens x
2007-03-22 16:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by lil c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is 2 ways to find out
Trust him and he proves that he is not a player
OR
Trust him and find out he is a player.
Just trust your gut...Your guts usually right
2007-03-22 16:23:07 · answer #10 · answered by Bad Mood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋