please help me my fiance is very rude to me when i want to ask him the reason he blames me of being pushy never thinks from my side,i am starting feeling like a failed person in everything.but i love him too much to leave him please tell me how to retain my mental balance and not bother him.
2007-03-22 09:06:52 · 8 answers · asked by ekta k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand you because I would join the same club. But honey keep calm and learn how to trust him.. Just don't allow him to be rude with you!!!! For anything you do he doesn't have the right to be rude with you! You can check on him.. you
might be surprised of what you could find out!
2007-03-22 09:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though it was very difficult to get the gist of what you were trying to ask, I'll answer this question. I too hate it when my fiance doesn't call me when "I" think he should. You just have to learn to chill out, and take a few steps back. If he's in the habit of not calling for a whole day or even days, then I would talk to him. "Fiance" to me signifies a very serious and committed relationship, practically already married, no way I would tolerate my fiance not calling me for a whole day. So just talk to him.
2007-03-22 09:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your man some space and some time alone. Don't get on his nerve, and leave him alone. He will come back to u, when he needs u, and he will do anything to be close to u, and u will enjoy teasing him by going further and further from him, while he will chase u all over the globe, and beg u for a little closeness. But u must create the space first.
2007-03-22 18:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing drives me up the wall more than a woman who calls more than 20 times a day... it's cute and all at first but then starts to get a trifle bugging..!
the main problem that could happen is your fiance could get the impression that you don't trust him and hence you call him up every alternate minute, even though in reality you're calling him because you miss him... talk to him and make him understand why you keep calling... it'll work for both of you
2007-03-22 11:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by maverick_youth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never totally never ever called my b.f or even now after 22 yrs married i never bug him--when he is free to talk he calls me from work or whatever--i cannot stand a pushy girl! and i do not blame guys for dumping them -i love my freedom, just the freedom of walking through the mall, and not doing anything bad, without anyone calling me and checking on me,
if you do not get a grip you will lose him, because you are strangling him-he is a person-you do not own him. it makes you look desperate.
2007-03-22 09:14:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he does something that annoys you just walk away. let you nerves calm down then when you calmer talk to him. try to ask him things instead of demanding things. most guys do not like someone telling them what they can or cant do. like i said when you feel the urge just take a few deep breaths and walk a away till you can talk to him without demanding him. your not a failed person you just need to figure out a way to differently approach him. i hope this helps.
2007-03-22 15:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by kameo_44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now u might feel that u love him inspite of his bad behaviour. But u will loose intrest in him as time goes by. so decide everything before u tie the knots.
2007-03-22 09:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by Smile- conquers the world 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How often do you want him to call you everyday? And ask him the same question. You two need to compromise. By the way, do you trust him?
2007-03-22 09:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋