Ok heres the situation... well today this guy came up to my lunch table and told my best friend that the guy that i liked, liked her. So I got really really sad, and i started crying like crazy during 7th period. The sub talked to me and i told her the situation. When I got home i got on msn and ask one of his friends if it was true. He said no that the guy that told us that was just joking. So do you guys think that i'm a complete loser for crying over nothing or wat?? I don't know... has this happened to any of you guys???
2007-03-22 08:59:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw i've liked this guy for 3 frickin years and now in 9th grade he finally decides to notice me.... wahh! but hey thnx people
2007-03-22 09:10:24 · update #1
Maybe you're just pre-menstrual or something because, seriously, if you cry that easily then maybe you need to see a counselor.
2007-03-22 09:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, you are not a loser. If you really care about someone, and think your about to never get a chance to be with them then yeah its a big deal. But maybe later you will look back on it all and think: " Why did I cry over that guy???" lol. Well, good luck!
2007-03-22 16:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT a loser. You have emotions just like the rest of us. If I werer in that situation I would be a bit upset myself. I have cried over situations like that many times in my life--there is nothing to be ashamed of. You are human and that is quite ok. Good luck and I hope that everything gets straightened out!!
2007-03-22 16:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's okay to react like that, especially if you really like this guy. But don't believe any such rumors. They're probably just jokes, trying to embarass your crush. Just let it go. It's not true unless you hear i straight from him.
I know that there's a complex net of crushes at my school and quite a few of us like the same guy. If we ever heard from a reliable source that he liked one of us, I know we would all congradulate that one, but cry in secret. I wish you luck in your love life, and remember, highschool is the time it's okay to feel things that are unexplainable. =)
2007-03-22 16:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by russet_wolf2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are. well not crazy but somewhat immature because although I dunno how old u r I'm guessing u r very young. You'll meet more guys, this is probably just a crush you have on some guy. But since this guy is not really your boyfriend (yet!!) you have to think of him not as your property but as a possibility. Stop listening to what his friends say or your friends, start a friendship with the guy you like!!!! make sure you like him and he likes u too.... get to know him as a friend and let him get to know you, instead of letting other people talk for him, or ur friends talk for you!!
good luck w/ the hottie!
luv
Nan
2007-03-22 16:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgirl78228 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when i was in 7th grade the guy i liked who seemed like he liked me, i mean we would link arms and eat lunch together, and i found out he got a girlfriend i was BALLING! but im older now and i just wanna say it is the stupidest thing ever. none of it matters, so dont worry about it.
it is alittle embarressing to find out your crush likes someone else but umm do not cry! its just a stupid boy u have a crush on. you problably were gonna stop liking him next week. hes a stupid immature boy problably. this is not the end of the world
2007-03-22 16:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a loser. I'm sure you're a very sweet and sensitive person. It is just so hard to be your age. Kids are cruel, and the opposite sex can be quite confusing. Keep your head up and it will all work out.
2007-03-22 16:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not a loser, you were hurt by the insensitive idiot. He wanted to see what if any reaction you were going to have, maybe the other guy set you up and asked his friend to do that.
2007-03-22 16:04:15 · answer #8 · answered by Feline05 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody has days like that, and YES it's ok. Anyone who says they haven't felt like that is LYING.
Ok, maybe they hide in their bedroom and cry, but they still do. Everyone does. Heck, my little sister calls me up bawling over guys every two weeks, and she's twenty three.
So, don't sweat it. You'll be fine.
2007-03-22 16:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by Theresa A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crying is crying. No big deal. You may want to go to the bathroom to cry the next time something sad happens to you . Avoid the embarrassment if it isn't serious.
2007-03-22 16:03:49 · answer #10 · answered by Georgie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no u r not a complete loser!
it has happened to me before but it was no a guy i liked! i knida get jealous when one of my best friends is beiends with the worst enemy!
hope it helped!
2007-03-22 16:04:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋