If a man you've never met before and didn't know you constantly bombarded with you with emails to meet, found out where you worked and sent you an embarrassing display of orchids, would you find that just a little creepy, weird and well just a bit stalkerish?
2007-03-22 08:58:42 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry I forgot to say despite you not being interested and telling him countless times that you are involved with someone else and not at all interested in him....
2007-03-22 09:01:40 · update #1
I am not bloody female! But I have a friend going through this.
2007-03-22 09:02:18 · update #2
Yes.
I love orchids though. So, ummm, the choice of flowers does take the edge off the weirdness. But do tell, what is going to be your (we are talking about you, aren't we?) next step to win this woman over? Suggestion... Get a haircut, shave, put on a smart suit and take yourself over to where she works. Stand in front of that building with a single orchid in your hand. When you see her, approach her (in a non-menacing, humble way) and beg her forgiveness for being overly bold and embarrassing her with the flowers. Then ask her to accompany you for a cup of coffee. Send me a message (not a creepy one, please) to tell me how it went.
2007-03-22 09:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is creepy, I had a stalker once. We worked at the same job but on different shifts some kind of way he found out where I lived and would be hanging around my area and just standing on a corner looking down at my house. After that he would follow me home (i got off at 11:30 at night) and he thought he was lookin' out for me when actually I was afraid even more. It only got worst, the police got involved. Don't tolderate this any longer, put a stop to it especially if you really really don't want it.
2007-03-22 09:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by misscancer10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would definitely be worried. Be careful with that situation. The man seems to be a stalker and he is unpredictable of what he is capable of. I would notify the police and your IP service to see what you can do to protect yourself. This person has already gotten personal information about you in regards to finding out where you work. I would take the necessary measures to put the man to a stop.
2007-03-22 09:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by Nunya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is he? You've never met him but he has your email address and your work address? How did he get them? If you willingly gave the info then let him send the flowers...if he found this out without your permission/knowledge ---get a restraining order. This is how OJs relationship started with Nicole. Keep that in mind.
2007-03-22 09:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by XOXOXOXO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends, if he was getting nasty about my refusals then yes I would consider him a danger, if he was just some lonely guy who thought he was being really romantic by not giving up then I would just give him a serious talking to, send back every gift and ask my boyfriend to have word also.
SORRY just re-read your question. Never met him? don't know him? CALL THE POLICE. DEFO STALKER MATERIAL
2007-03-22 09:26:18 · answer #5 · answered by Blackheath rugby wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeap, looks like youve got an infatuated man on your doorstep.
dear, watch yourself.
have a freind spend the night..
get an alarm system.
or a yappy dog?
iono :/
but thats weird and he's showing signs of stalking.
or you could just ask him about it and
tell him to buzz off.
2007-03-22 09:03:24 · answer #6 · answered by ninjah_jamie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you've never met, and you don't know him well, it is kind of creepy, you need to tell him to back off. What's he going to do next, start waiting for you at your door? Psycho!
2007-03-22 09:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by Valerie S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had this done yes he is a stalker but then as u wouldnt give out personal details then this woman has got her self in to this if she is with some one why is she talking to him if she doesnt know him ?? sounds like she only telling u half the story mate x
2007-03-22 09:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by loubylou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah! i would find that weird. It's kinda sweet but he sounds way too desperate! He found out where you work... he should have asked you for that sort of info instead of finding it out himself because that makes him sound like a stalker...
2007-03-22 09:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by dbx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Stalker.
2007-03-22 09:01:07 · answer #10 · answered by Rebeccah 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋